Top Fantasies

Below are the rankings of fantasies from the selected gender combination of respondents and partners. The numberical values are a percent of total respondents.

  • FEMALE respondent MALE partner
  • MALE respondent FEMALE partner
  • FEMALE respondent FEMALE partner
  • MALE respondent MALE partner

  • FEMALE respondent + FEMALE partner

    QUESTION

    YES/WILLING

    AROUSED

    NO

    RESPONDENT-F initiates sex more often towards PARTNER-F

    90

    4

    6

    PARTNER-F talks dirtier to RESPONDENT-F

    89

    8

    4

    PARTNER-F initiates sex more often towards RESPONDENT-F

    88

    7

    4

    RESPONDENT-F buys sex toy to use on PARTNER-F

    88

    4

    7

    RESPONDENT-F explores PARTNER-F's body

    88

    4

    8

    have longer teasing and foreplay sessions

    87

    7

    6

    PARTNER-F explores RESPONDENT-F's body

    87

    5

    8

    RESPONDENT-F edges PARTNER-F near orgasm

    87

    4

    9

    RESPONDENT-F talks dirtier to PARTNER-F

    87

    9

    4

    PARTNER-F fondles RESPONDENT-F while watching tv/movie

    86

    12

    3

    PARTNER-F shows favorite spots and techniques to RESPONDENT-F

    86

    9

    5

    RESPONDENT-F fondles PARTNER-F while watching tv/movie

    86

    11

    4

    PARTNER-F buys sex toy to use on self

    85

    9

    6

    PARTNER-F gives RESPONDENT-F a sensual massage

    85

    9

    6

    RESPONDENT-F restrains or ties down PARTNER-F

    85

    4

    12

    RESPONDENT-F takes lead more during sex with PARTNER-F

    85

    5

    10

    send each other sexy messages (text/email)

    85

    6

    9

    shop together for sex toy(s)

    85

    8

    7

    PARTNER-F is dominant toward RESPONDENT-F submissive

    84

    6

    9

    RESPONDENT-F gives PARTNER-F a sensual massage

    84

    9

    7

    RESPONDENT-F uses vibrators on PARTNER-F in sex

    84

    8

    8

    PARTNER-F buys sex toy to use on RESPONDENT-F

    83

    10

    7

    PARTNER-F takes lead more during sex with RESPONDENT-F

    83

    12

    5

    PARTNER-F grinds pussy on RESPONDENT-F's pussy

    82

    4

    13

    PARTNER-F uses vibrators on RESPONDENT-F in sex

    82

    13

    5

    have morning sex

    81

    11

    9

    have sex 3 times in one day

    81

    11

    9

    RESPONDENT-F shows favorite spots and techniques to PARTNER-F

    81

    10

    10

    PARTNER-F bites RESPONDENT-F

    80

    4

    16

    PARTNER-F restrains or ties down RESPONDENT-F

    80

    9

    11

    have sex 7 days in a row

    79

    10

    11

    PARTNER-F edges RESPONDENT-F near orgasm

    79

    10

    11

    RESPONDENT-F bites PARTNER-F

    79

    5

    16

    RESPONDENT-F blindfolds PARTNER-F

    79

    8

    13

    sexually tease each other for an entire day

    79

    13

    8

    RESPONDENT-F buys sex toy to use on self

    78

    11

    11

    RESPONDENT-F is dominant toward PARTNER-F submissive

    77

    5

    18

    PARTNER-F spanks RESPONDENT-F with hand

    76

    4

    20

    PARTNER-F wears risque lingerie

    75

    8

    17

    play sex games (board/card/online)

    75

    12

    12

    RESPONDENT-F uses dildos on PARTNER-F in sex

    75

    4

    20

    RESPONDENT-F wears risque lingerie

    75

    9

    16

    PARTNER-F sits on RESPONDENT-F's face while receiving oral

    74

    9

    17

    PARTNER-F blindfolds RESPONDENT-F

    73

    15

    12

    PARTNER-F goes out not wearing a bra

    73

    7

    20

    PARTNER-F masturbates while letting RESPONDENT-F watch

    73

    15

    12

    RESPONDENT-F spanks PARTNER-F with hand

    73

    7

    20

    PARTNER-F attempts female ejaculation

    72

    5

    23

    PARTNER-F uses dildos on RESPONDENT-F in sex

    72

    9

    19

    RESPONDENT-F grinds pussy on PARTNER-F's pussy

    72

    7

    21

    RESPONDENT-F masturbates while letting PARTNER-F watch

    72

    11

    17

    69 together

    71

    8

    21

    RESPONDENT-F wakes up PARTNER-F with sex or oral sex

    71

    6

    23

    have sex in a car

    69

    12

    18

    PARTNER-F trims / shaves / waxes around labia

    69

    2

    29

    RESPONDENT-F leaves sex invites for PARTNER-F

    69

    11

    20

    RESPONDENT-F trims / shaves / waxes around labia

    69

    4

    27

    PARTNER-F wakes up RESPONDENT-F with sex or oral sex

    68

    11

    22

    go to a strip club together

    67

    2

    32

    PARTNER-F leaves sex invites for RESPONDENT-F

    67

    12

    20

    PARTNER-F penetrates RESPONDENT-F with a strap-on

    67

    6

    27

    RESPONDENT-F goes out not wearing a bra

    67

    8

    25

    have phone sex

    66

    16

    18

    have sex 30 days in a row

    66

    7

    27

    RESPONDENT-F attempts female ejaculation

    66

    6

    28

    RESPONDENT-F spanks PARTNER-F with toys (whip/paddle)

    66

    5

    29

    roleplay in costumes

    66

    4

    30

    PARTNER-F fondles RESPONDENT-F in a public setting (restaurant/theater)

    65

    14

    21

    RESPONDENT-F fondles PARTNER-F in a public setting (restaurant/theater)

    65

    12

    24

    RESPONDENT-F uses a remote control toy on PARTNER-F in a public setting

    65

    14

    21

    watch porn together

    65

    14

    20

    read erotic fiction together

    64

    15

    21

    RESPONDENT-F penetrates PARTNER-F with a strap-on

    64

    5

    31

    RESPONDENT-F uses nipple clamps on PARTNER-F

    64

    5

    31

    PARTNER-F goes out not wearing panties

    63

    11

    27

    RESPONDENT-F takes erotic pictures of PARTNER-F

    63

    6

    31

    RESPONDENT-F sits on PARTNER-F's face while receiving oral

    62

    12

    25

    PARTNER-F goes out wearing crotchless panties

    60

    9

    31

    PARTNER-F uses a remote control toy on RESPONDENT-F in a public setting

    60

    19

    21

    have sex in the woods or in a park

    59

    13

    28

    PARTNER-F spanks RESPONDENT-F with toys (whip/paddle)

    58

    7

    34

    have sex in a public restroom

    57

    7

    36

    RESPONDENT-F goes out not wearing panties

    57

    13

    30

    have sex in the guest room at a party

    56

    16

    28

    PARTNER-F is a sex slave for RESPONDENT-F for a day

    54

    11

    36

    RESPONDENT-F is a sex slave for PARTNER-F for a day

    54

    16

    30

    use sex furniture (such as a sex swing or ramp)

    54

    11

    35

    RESPONDENT-F goes out wearing crotchless panties

    53

    13

    34

    PARTNER-F wears a ball gag

    52

    4

    44

    PARTNER-F wears a butt plug during sex

    52

    7

    41

    PARTNER-F takes erotic pictures of RESPONDENT-F

    51

    8

    41

    use mirrors while having sex

    51

    12

    37

    PARTNER-F is suspended while having sex with RESPONDENT-F

    50

    7

    43

    have sex in a store dressing room

    49

    11

    40

    RESPONDENT-F is suspended while having sex with PARTNER-F

    48

    7

    45

    have sex in work environment

    47

    6

    46

    have sex while on PARTNER-F's period

    46

    3

    51

    have sex while on RESPONDENT-F's period

    44

    2

    54

    PARTNER-F fisted by RESPONDENT-F

    44

    1

    55

    PARTNER-F wears a dog collar with a leash

    43

    4

    53

    RESPONDENT-F cross dresses in clothing of the opposite sex

    43

    1

    56

    RESPONDENT-F wears a ball gag

    43

    5

    52

    PARTNER-F uses nipple clamps on RESPONDENT-F

    41

    11

    47

    go to a sex or swingers club together

    40

    4

    55

    RESPONDENT-F anally fingers PARTNER-F

    40

    4

    55

    RESPONDENT-F anally pegs PARTNER-F with a strap-on

    39

    5

    56

    have sex in front of an outward facing window

    38

    7

    55

    take pictures of us having sex

    38

    10

    53

    RESPONDENT-F licks PARTNER-F's anus

    37

    4

    59

    RESPONDENT-F wears a butt plug during sex

    37

    5

    58

    PARTNER-F cross dresses in clothing of the opposite sex

    36

    2

    62

    go to a pleasure resort together

    35

    10

    55

    film ourselves having sex

    34

    10

    56

    PARTNER-F anally fingers RESPONDENT-F

    34

    10

    57

    RESPONDENT-F wears a dog collar with a leash

    34

    3

    63

    RESPONDENT-F wears a hood

    33

    4

    63

    PARTNER-F wears a hood

    32

    4

    64

    include another female in sex (menage-a-trois)

    31

    16

    54

    PARTNER-F anally pegs RESPONDENT-F with a strap-on

    31

    4

    65

    PARTNER-F licks RESPONDENT-F's anus

    31

    9

    59

    go to a nudist resort together

    28

    7

    65

    PARTNER-F watches RESPONDENT-F get breasts rubbed by a stranger

    27

    8

    66

    RESPONDENT-F fisted by PARTNER-F

    27

    4

    69

    include another male in sex (menage-a-trois)

    26

    7

    67

    give each other a sexual Hall Pass

    25

    3

    72

    PARTNER-F watches RESPONDENT-F get felt up by a stranger

    25

    5

    70

    watch other couples have sex (live)

    25

    7

    68

    RESPONDENT-F watches PARTNER-F get breasts rubbed by a stranger

    24

    10

    66

    include another couple in sex (small orgy)

    23

    6

    71

    have sex monogamously with other couples (don't touch other couples)

    21

    4

    75

    let other person/people/couples watch us have sex

    21

    10

    69

    PARTNER-F watches RESPONDENT-F have sex with another female

    21

    10

    69

    participate in an large orgy (more than 4 people)

    20

    5

    75

    RESPONDENT-F watches PARTNER-F have sex with another female

    20

    11

    69

    RESPONDENT-F watches PARTNER-F get felt up by a stranger

    19

    8

    73

    RESPONDENT-F double penetrated by PARTNER-F and another man

    18

    5

    77

    RESPONDENT-F watches PARTNER-F have sex with another male

    18

    4

    77

    PARTNER-F double penetrated by RESPONDENT-F and another man

    16

    7

    76

    PARTNER-F watches RESPONDENT-F have sex with another male

    16

    14

    70

    swap partners with another couple

    16

    7

    77

    show pictures / film of PARTNER-F over the internet

    13

    4

    83

    show pictures / film of RESPONDENT-F over the internet

    11

    5

    84

    show pictures / film of us having sex over the internet

    11

    4

    84