QUESTION

YES/WILLING

AROUSED

NO

RESPONDENT-F explores PARTNER-F's body

91

5

4

RESPONDENT-F initiates sex more often towards PARTNER-F

90

5

5

have longer teasing and foreplay sessions

89

9

2

PARTNER-F explores RESPONDENT-F's body

89

5

6

PARTNER-F initiates sex more often towards RESPONDENT-F

89

7

4

PARTNER-F shows favorite spots and techniques to RESPONDENT-F

88

8

3

have morning sex

87

7

6

RESPONDENT-F buys sex toy to use on PARTNER-F

87

6

7

shop together for sex toy(s)

87

7

6

RESPONDENT-F fondles PARTNER-F while watching tv/movie

86

10

3

RESPONDENT-F gives PARTNER-F a sensual massage

86

9

5

RESPONDENT-F takes lead more during sex with PARTNER-F

86

7

8

PARTNER-F fondles RESPONDENT-F while watching tv/movie

85

12

4

RESPONDENT-F uses vibrators on PARTNER-F in sex

85

7

7

PARTNER-F buys sex toy to use on self

84

9

7

PARTNER-F takes lead more during sex with RESPONDENT-F

84

12

4

PARTNER-F talks dirtier to RESPONDENT-F

84

10

5

RESPONDENT-F edges PARTNER-F near orgasm

84

8

8

send each other sexy messages (text/email)

84

9

7

have sex 3 times in one day

83

11

6

PARTNER-F buys sex toy to use on RESPONDENT-F

83

7

10

PARTNER-F gives RESPONDENT-F a sensual massage

83

12

5

have sex 7 days in a row

82

9

9

PARTNER-F is dominant toward RESPONDENT-F submissive

82

7

11

RESPONDENT-F shows favorite spots and techniques to PARTNER-F

82

10

7

PARTNER-F uses vibrators on RESPONDENT-F in sex

81

9

10

play sex games (board/card/online)

81

11

9

RESPONDENT-F talks dirtier to PARTNER-F

81

11

8

sexually tease each other for an entire day

81

13

6

RESPONDENT-F blindfolds PARTNER-F

80

11

9

RESPONDENT-F grinds pussy on PARTNER-F's pussy

80

6

14

RESPONDENT-F restrains or ties down PARTNER-F

80

9

11

have sex in a car

79

12

10

PARTNER-F restrains or ties down RESPONDENT-F

79

10

10

PARTNER-F sits on RESPONDENT-F's face while receiving oral

79

7

14

PARTNER-F blindfolds RESPONDENT-F

78

11

11

PARTNER-F masturbates while letting RESPONDENT-F watch

78

13

10

RESPONDENT-F buys sex toy to use on self

78

8

13

RESPONDENT-F uses dildos on PARTNER-F in sex

78

6

16

RESPONDENT-F bites PARTNER-F

77

8

15

69 together

76

8

16

PARTNER-F edges RESPONDENT-F near orgasm

76

14

10

PARTNER-F grinds pussy on RESPONDENT-F's pussy

76

8

16

RESPONDENT-F is dominant toward PARTNER-F submissive

76

8

17

RESPONDENT-F wakes up PARTNER-F with sex or oral sex

76

10

15

PARTNER-F attempts female ejaculation

75

8

17

PARTNER-F bites RESPONDENT-F

75

9

16

RESPONDENT-F trims / shaves / waxes around labia

75

2

23

RESPONDENT-F wears risque lingerie

74

8

18

RESPONDENT-F sits on PARTNER-F's face while receiving oral

73

8

19

RESPONDENT-F spanks PARTNER-F with hand

73

9

19

PARTNER-F goes out not wearing a bra

72

9

19

PARTNER-F spanks RESPONDENT-F with hand

72

8

21

PARTNER-F trims / shaves / waxes around labia

72

3

25

PARTNER-F uses dildos on RESPONDENT-F in sex

72

8

20

RESPONDENT-F masturbates while letting PARTNER-F watch

72

11

18

PARTNER-F wakes up RESPONDENT-F with sex or oral sex

71

12

17

PARTNER-F wears risque lingerie

71

12

17

RESPONDENT-F attempts female ejaculation

70

8

21

RESPONDENT-F penetrates PARTNER-F with a strap-on

70

5

25

have sex 30 days in a row

68

11

21

PARTNER-F leaves sex invites for RESPONDENT-F

68

14

17

PARTNER-F penetrates RESPONDENT-F with a strap-on

68

7

25

RESPONDENT-F takes erotic pictures of PARTNER-F

68

11

22

RESPONDENT-F leaves sex invites for PARTNER-F

67

14

19

watch porn together

67

12

21

RESPONDENT-F fondles PARTNER-F in a public setting (restaurant/theater)

65

17

17

RESPONDENT-F goes out not wearing a bra

65

6

29

have phone sex

64

14

22

PARTNER-F goes out not wearing panties

64

13

23

RESPONDENT-F uses a remote control toy on PARTNER-F in a public setting

64

13

23

have sex in the woods or in a park

63

13

24

PARTNER-F fondles RESPONDENT-F in a public setting (restaurant/theater)

63

19

18

read erotic fiction together

62

13

25

have sex in the guest room at a party

61

15

24

RESPONDENT-F spanks PARTNER-F with toys (whip/paddle)

60

7

33

roleplay in costumes

60

10

30

use sex furniture (such as a sex swing or ramp)

60

12

28

go to a strip club together

58

9

33

PARTNER-F uses a remote control toy on RESPONDENT-F in a public setting

58

16

26

PARTNER-F takes erotic pictures of RESPONDENT-F

57

9

34

use mirrors while having sex

57

15

28

PARTNER-F goes out wearing crotchless panties

56

12

32

have sex while on PARTNER-F's period

55

2

43

RESPONDENT-F is a sex slave for PARTNER-F for a day

55

13

31

have sex in a store dressing room

54

15

32

PARTNER-F spanks RESPONDENT-F with toys (whip/paddle)

54

9

37

RESPONDENT-F goes out not wearing panties

54

12

34

RESPONDENT-F uses nipple clamps on PARTNER-F

54

8

38

have sex in a public restroom

53

9

37

have sex while on RESPONDENT-F's period

52

2

46

PARTNER-F wears a butt plug during sex

52

7

41

PARTNER-F is a sex slave for RESPONDENT-F for a day

50

12

38

PARTNER-F is suspended while having sex with RESPONDENT-F

49

10

41

take pictures of us having sex

49

9

42

RESPONDENT-F anally fingers PARTNER-F

47

6

47

RESPONDENT-F goes out wearing crotchless panties

46

14

41

have sex in work environment

45

12

43

RESPONDENT-F is suspended while having sex with PARTNER-F

45

13

42

film ourselves having sex

44

11

45

RESPONDENT-F anally pegs PARTNER-F with a strap-on

43

6

51

PARTNER-F wears a ball gag

42

8

50

go to a pleasure resort together

41

10

48

have sex in front of an outward facing window

41

13

46

RESPONDENT-F licks PARTNER-F's anus

41

4

54

PARTNER-F cross dresses in clothing of the opposite sex

40

5

55

RESPONDENT-F cross dresses in clothing of the opposite sex

40

3

57

PARTNER-F fisted by RESPONDENT-F

39

3

58

PARTNER-F uses nipple clamps on RESPONDENT-F

38

12

50

RESPONDENT-F wears a butt plug during sex

37

9

54

PARTNER-F wears a dog collar with a leash

36

5

59

PARTNER-F anally fingers RESPONDENT-F

35

10

55

RESPONDENT-F wears a ball gag

35

10

54

PARTNER-F licks RESPONDENT-F's anus

34

9

58

go to a sex or swingers club together

33

7

60

include another female in sex (menage-a-trois)

33

10

57

RESPONDENT-F wears a dog collar with a leash

32

6

62

go to a nudist resort together

31

6

63

PARTNER-F anally pegs RESPONDENT-F with a strap-on

30

9

62

watch other couples have sex (live)

26

11

64

give each other permission to get a happy ending massage

25

4

71

PARTNER-F wears a hood

24

3

73

RESPONDENT-F fisted by PARTNER-F

24

7

69

give each other a sexual Hall Pass

23

4

73

include another male in sex (menage-a-trois)

23

6

71

PARTNER-F watches RESPONDENT-F have sex with another female

23

8

69

RESPONDENT-F wears a hood

23

4

73

include another couple in sex (small orgy)

22

8

70

let other person/people/couples watch us have sex

22

10

67

have sex monogamously with other couples (don't touch other couples)

21

7

72

RESPONDENT-F watches PARTNER-F have sex with another female

20

9

71

participate in an large orgy (more than 4 people)

18

8

75

PARTNER-F watches RESPONDENT-F get breasts rubbed by a stranger

18

6

75

PARTNER-F watches RESPONDENT-F get felt up by a stranger

18

7

75

PARTNER-F watches RESPONDENT-F have sex with another male

17

5

78

RESPONDENT-F watches PARTNER-F get breasts rubbed by a stranger

17

7

77

PARTNER-F double penetrated by RESPONDENT-F and another man

16

4

80

show pictures / film of PARTNER-F over the internet

16

3

82

RESPONDENT-F double penetrated by PARTNER-F and another man

15

7

78

RESPONDENT-F watches PARTNER-F get felt up by a stranger

15

7

78

RESPONDENT-F watches PARTNER-F have sex with another male

15

6

79

show pictures / film of RESPONDENT-F over the internet

14

4

82

swap partners with another couple

14

5

81

show pictures / film of us having sex over the internet

13

4

83