Top Fantasies

Below are the rankings of fantasies from the selected gender combination of respondents and partners. The numberical values are a percent of total respondents.

  • FEMALE respondent MALE partner
  • MALE respondent FEMALE partner
  • FEMALE respondent FEMALE partner
  • MALE respondent MALE partner

  • FEMALE respondent + MALE partner

    QUESTION

    YES/WILLING

    AROUSED

    NO

    RESPONDENT-F gives PARTNER-M a hand job

    93

    3

    3

    PARTNER-M explores RESPONDENT-F's body

    89

    7

    4

    PARTNER-M initiates sex more often towards RESPONDENT-F

    89

    7

    4

    PARTNER-M takes lead more during sex with RESPONDENT-F

    89

    9

    2

    RESPONDENT-F explores PARTNER-M's body

    89

    7

    4

    RESPONDENT-F grinds pussy on PARTNER-M's penis

    88

    8

    4

    have morning sex

    87

    7

    5

    PARTNER-M shows favorite spots and techniques to RESPONDENT-F

    87

    9

    3

    RESPONDENT-F initiates sex more often towards PARTNER-M

    86

    9

    5

    RESPONDENT-F fondles PARTNER-M while watching tv/movie

    85

    11

    5

    RESPONDENT-F gives PARTNER-M a sensual massage

    85

    9

    6

    have longer teasing and foreplay sessions

    84

    11

    5

    PARTNER-M gives RESPONDENT-F a sensual massage

    84

    11

    4

    RESPONDENT-F wears risque lingerie

    84

    10

    6

    PARTNER-M fondles RESPONDENT-F while watching tv/movie

    83

    12

    5

    RESPONDENT-F edges PARTNER-M near orgasm

    83

    10

    7

    RESPONDENT-F makes PARTNER-M cum multiple times in one sex session

    83

    12

    5

    RESPONDENT-F trims / shaves / waxes around labia

    83

    3

    13

    PARTNER-M buys sex toy to use on RESPONDENT-F

    82

    10

    8

    PARTNER-M uses vibrators on RESPONDENT-F in sex

    82

    10

    8

    RESPONDENT-F shows favorite spots and techniques to PARTNER-M

    82

    11

    7

    PARTNER-M spanks RESPONDENT-F with hand

    81

    7

    11

    PARTNER-M cums over RESPONDENT-F's breasts/neck (pearl necklace)

    80

    7

    13

    PARTNER-M is dominant toward RESPONDENT-F submissive

    80

    9

    11

    RESPONDENT-F sits on PARTNER-M's penis without making him cum

    80

    11

    9

    RESPONDENT-F wakes up PARTNER-M with sex or oral sex

    80

    11

    9

    send each other sexy messages (text/email)

    80

    11

    9

    69 together

    79

    8

    13

    PARTNER-M blindfolds RESPONDENT-F

    79

    13

    8

    PARTNER-M edges RESPONDENT-F near orgasm

    79

    12

    9

    PARTNER-M talks dirtier to RESPONDENT-F

    79

    11

    10

    PARTNER-M thrusts penis between RESPONDENT-F's breasts

    79

    9

    12

    shop together for sex toy(s)

    79

    10

    11

    have sex 7 days in a row

    78

    12

    11

    RESPONDENT-F takes lead more during sex with PARTNER-M

    78

    12

    10

    have sex 3 times in one day

    77

    13

    11

    PARTNER-M restrains or ties down RESPONDENT-F

    77

    11

    11

    RESPONDENT-F blindfolds PARTNER-M

    77

    11

    12

    RESPONDENT-F talks dirtier to PARTNER-M

    77

    11

    13

    sexually tease each other for an entire day

    77

    15

    8

    PARTNER-M trims / shaves / waxes around penis and scrotum

    76

    6

    18

    play sex games (board/card/online)

    76

    12

    11

    RESPONDENT-F sits on PARTNER-M's face while receiving oral

    76

    9

    15

    PARTNER-M masturbates while letting RESPONDENT-F watch

    75

    11

    13

    RESPONDENT-F buys sex toy to use on self

    75

    10

    15

    PARTNER-M wakes up RESPONDENT-F with sex or oral sex

    74

    11

    15

    have sex in a car

    73

    12

    15

    RESPONDENT-F buys sex toy to use on PARTNER-M

    73

    9

    18

    RESPONDENT-F masturbates while letting PARTNER-M watch

    73

    11

    17

    PARTNER-M wears a cock ring during sex

    72

    10

    18

    RESPONDENT-F restrains or ties down PARTNER-M

    72

    10

    17

    PARTNER-M buys sex toy to use on self

    71

    10

    19

    PARTNER-M leaves sex invites for RESPONDENT-F

    71

    15

    14

    RESPONDENT-F leaves sex invites for PARTNER-M

    71

    14

    15

    PARTNER-M uses dildos on RESPONDENT-F in sex

    70

    9

    20

    practice kegel exercises while having sex

    69

    10

    21

    RESPONDENT-F bites PARTNER-M

    69

    8

    22

    RESPONDENT-F uses vibrators on PARTNER-M in sex

    69

    8

    23

    RESPONDENT-F swallows PARTNER-M's cum

    68

    5

    27

    RESPONDENT-F goes out not wearing panties

    67

    14

    19

    watch porn together

    67

    13

    20

    kiss after cuming in RESPONDENT-F's mouth

    66

    6

    28

    PARTNER-M bites RESPONDENT-F

    65

    10

    24

    RESPONDENT-F goes out not wearing a bra

    65

    8

    27

    RESPONDENT-F spanks PARTNER-M with hand

    65

    7

    28

    RESPONDENT-F is dominant toward PARTNER-M submissive

    64

    11

    25

    have sex 30 days in a row

    63

    12

    24

    have sex in the woods or in a park

    63

    14

    23

    roleplay in costumes

    63

    12

    26

    RESPONDENT-F fondles PARTNER-M in a public setting (restaurant/theater)

    62

    20

    18

    use mirrors while having sex

    62

    14

    24

    PARTNER-M fondles RESPONDENT-F in a public setting (restaurant/theater)

    61

    20

    18

    RESPONDENT-F goes out wearing crotchless panties

    61

    14

    25

    RESPONDENT-F is a sex slave for PARTNER-M for a day

    60

    14

    25

    PARTNER-M spanks RESPONDENT-F with toys (whip/paddle)

    59

    11

    30

    RESPONDENT-F attempts female ejaculation

    59

    12

    29

    PARTNER-M takes erotic pictures of RESPONDENT-F

    58

    12

    30

    have phone sex

    57

    13

    30

    PARTNER-M cums over RESPONDENT-F's face (facial)

    56

    6

    38

    PARTNER-M uses a remote control toy on RESPONDENT-F in a public setting

    56

    19

    25

    read erotic fiction together

    56

    16

    27

    have sex while on RESPONDENT-F's period

    55

    4

    42

    PARTNER-M anally fingers RESPONDENT-F

    55

    9

    36

    use sex furniture (such as a sex swing or ramp)

    55

    17

    28

    RESPONDENT-F takes erotic pictures of PARTNER-M

    54

    12

    34

    have sex in the guest room at a party

    53

    18

    29

    PARTNER-M anally penetrates RESPONDENT-F

    52

    11

    37

    go to a strip club together

    51

    10

    40

    PARTNER-M is a sex slave for RESPONDENT-F for a day

    50

    13

    37

    RESPONDENT-F spanks PARTNER-M with toys (whip/paddle)

    50

    7

    43

    RESPONDENT-F anally fingers PARTNER-M

    49

    5

    46

    take pictures of us having sex

    49

    12

    39

    PARTNER-M licks RESPONDENT-F's anus

    48

    7

    45

    film ourselves having sex

    47

    12

    41

    RESPONDENT-F wears a butt plug during sex

    47

    12

    41

    PARTNER-M wears a butt plug during sex

    46

    5

    48

    RESPONDENT-F is suspended while having sex with PARTNER-M

    46

    15

    39

    have sex in front of an outward facing window

    45

    16

    40

    RESPONDENT-F gives PARTNER-M a foot job

    45

    5

    50

    PARTNER-M uses nipple clamps on RESPONDENT-F

    44

    13

    43

    RESPONDENT-F uses nipple clamps on PARTNER-M

    43

    5

    52

    have sex in a public restroom

    41

    11

    48

    have sex in a store dressing room

    41

    15

    43

    suck semen out of RESPONDENT-F after sex

    41

    8

    51

    have sex in work environment

    39

    13

    48

    go to a pleasure resort together

    38

    14

    48

    PARTNER-M is suspended while having sex with RESPONDENT-F

    37

    9

    54

    RESPONDENT-F anally pegs PARTNER-M with a strap-on

    37

    6

    57

    RESPONDENT-F licks PARTNER-M's anus

    37

    5

    59

    RESPONDENT-F wears a ball gag

    37

    8

    55

    PARTNER-M roleplay rapes RESPONDENT-F

    35

    10

    55

    go to a nudist resort together

    32

    9

    60

    PARTNER-M penetrates RESPONDENT-F with a strap-on

    32

    7

    62

    RESPONDENT-F wears a dog collar with a leash

    32

    7

    61

    go to a sex or swingers club together

    29

    11

    61

    include another female in sex (menage-a-trois)

    29

    13

    58

    include another male in sex (menage-a-trois)

    27

    13

    60

    watch other couples have sex (live)

    27

    13

    60

    PARTNER-M watches RESPONDENT-F have sex with another female

    26

    12

    61

    PARTNER-M wears a ball gag

    26

    4

    70

    PARTNER-M anally pegs RESPONDENT-F with a strap-on

    25

    6

    69

    PARTNER-M watches RESPONDENT-F get breasts rubbed by a stranger

    25

    11

    64

    PARTNER-M wears a hood

    25

    4

    71

    RESPONDENT-F wears a hood

    25

    5

    71

    let other person/people/couples watch us have sex

    24

    12

    64

    PARTNER-M watches RESPONDENT-F get felt up by a stranger

    24

    12

    64

    PARTNER-M wears a dog collar with a leash

    24

    4

    72

    give each other permission to get a happy ending massage

    23

    7

    70

    have sex monogamously with other couples (don't touch other couples)

    23

    11

    66

    RESPONDENT-F fisted by PARTNER-M

    23

    9

    68

    PARTNER-M watches RESPONDENT-F have sex with another male

    21

    10

    69

    RESPONDENT-F double penetrated by PARTNER-M and another man

    21

    14

    66

    include another couple in sex (small orgy)

    19

    11

    70

    RESPONDENT-F cross dresses in clothing of the opposite sex

    19

    3

    78

    give each other a sexual Hall Pass

    18

    6

    75

    PARTNER-M cross dresses in clothing of the opposite sex

    17

    3

    80

    participate in an large orgy (more than 4 people)

    16

    9

    75

    RESPONDENT-F watches PARTNER-M have sex with another female

    16

    9

    75

    show pictures / film of PARTNER-M over the internet

    16

    3

    81

    show pictures / film of RESPONDENT-F over the internet

    15

    5

    80

    swap partners with another couple

    15

    8

    77

    show pictures / film of us having sex over the internet

    14

    6

    80

    RESPONDENT-F watches PARTNER-M have sex with another male

    13

    6

    80