Top Fantasies

Below are the rankings of fantasies from the selected gender combination of respondents and partners. The numberical values are a percent of total respondents.

  • FEMALE respondent MALE partner
  • MALE respondent FEMALE partner
  • FEMALE respondent FEMALE partner
  • MALE respondent MALE partner

  • FEMALE respondent + MALE partner

    QUESTION

    YES/WILLING

    AROUSED

    NO

    RESPONDENT-F gives PARTNER-M a hand job

    92

    4

    4

    RESPONDENT-F grinds pussy on PARTNER-M's penis

    89

    7

    4

    PARTNER-M explores RESPONDENT-F's body

    88

    8

    4

    PARTNER-M initiates sex more often towards RESPONDENT-F

    88

    7

    5

    PARTNER-M takes lead more during sex with RESPONDENT-F

    88

    9

    2

    RESPONDENT-F explores PARTNER-M's body

    88

    7

    4

    have morning sex

    86

    8

    6

    PARTNER-M shows favorite spots and techniques to RESPONDENT-F

    86

    10

    4

    RESPONDENT-F initiates sex more often towards PARTNER-M

    86

    9

    6

    RESPONDENT-F gives PARTNER-M a sensual massage

    85

    9

    6

    PARTNER-M gives RESPONDENT-F a sensual massage

    84

    12

    4

    RESPONDENT-F fondles PARTNER-M while watching tv/movie

    84

    10

    6

    RESPONDENT-F wears risque lingerie

    84

    10

    6

    RESPONDENT-F makes PARTNER-M cum multiple times in one sex session

    83

    12

    5

    RESPONDENT-F trims / shaves / waxes around labia

    83

    4

    13

    have longer teasing and foreplay sessions

    82

    13

    5

    PARTNER-M fondles RESPONDENT-F while watching tv/movie

    82

    12

    6

    PARTNER-M uses vibrators on RESPONDENT-F in sex

    82

    10

    8

    RESPONDENT-F edges PARTNER-M near orgasm

    82

    12

    6

    PARTNER-M buys sex toy to use on RESPONDENT-F

    81

    11

    8

    PARTNER-M spanks RESPONDENT-F with hand

    81

    7

    12

    RESPONDENT-F shows favorite spots and techniques to PARTNER-M

    81

    12

    7

    PARTNER-M is dominant toward RESPONDENT-F submissive

    80

    10

    10

    send each other sexy messages (text/email)

    80

    11

    10

    shop together for sex toy(s)

    80

    9

    11

    69 together

    79

    7

    14

    PARTNER-M cums over RESPONDENT-F's breasts/neck (pearl necklace)

    79

    7

    14

    PARTNER-M talks dirtier to RESPONDENT-F

    79

    12

    9

    RESPONDENT-F sits on PARTNER-M's penis without making him cum

    79

    11

    10

    RESPONDENT-F wakes up PARTNER-M with sex or oral sex

    79

    11

    9

    have sex 7 days in a row

    78

    11

    11

    PARTNER-M edges RESPONDENT-F near orgasm

    78

    13

    9

    PARTNER-M thrusts penis between RESPONDENT-F's breasts

    78

    10

    12

    RESPONDENT-F takes lead more during sex with PARTNER-M

    78

    13

    9

    have sex 3 times in one day

    77

    12

    10

    PARTNER-M blindfolds RESPONDENT-F

    77

    14

    9

    RESPONDENT-F talks dirtier to PARTNER-M

    77

    10

    13

    sexually tease each other for an entire day

    77

    15

    8

    PARTNER-M restrains or ties down RESPONDENT-F

    76

    12

    12

    PARTNER-M trims / shaves / waxes around penis and scrotum

    76

    7

    17

    play sex games (board/card/online)

    76

    12

    11

    RESPONDENT-F blindfolds PARTNER-M

    76

    11

    13

    RESPONDENT-F sits on PARTNER-M's face while receiving oral

    76

    8

    16

    PARTNER-M masturbates while letting RESPONDENT-F watch

    75

    11

    14

    RESPONDENT-F buys sex toy to use on self

    74

    11

    16

    have sex in a car

    73

    13

    14

    PARTNER-M wakes up RESPONDENT-F with sex or oral sex

    73

    13

    15

    PARTNER-M wears a cock ring during sex

    72

    10

    18

    RESPONDENT-F buys sex toy to use on PARTNER-M

    72

    9

    19

    RESPONDENT-F masturbates while letting PARTNER-M watch

    72

    11

    17

    RESPONDENT-F restrains or ties down PARTNER-M

    71

    11

    18

    PARTNER-M buys sex toy to use on self

    70

    10

    20

    PARTNER-M leaves sex invites for RESPONDENT-F

    70

    16

    14

    PARTNER-M uses dildos on RESPONDENT-F in sex

    70

    10

    20

    practice kegel exercises while having sex

    70

    10

    21

    RESPONDENT-F leaves sex invites for PARTNER-M

    70

    16

    14

    RESPONDENT-F bites PARTNER-M

    68

    8

    23

    RESPONDENT-F uses vibrators on PARTNER-M in sex

    68

    8

    24

    kiss after cuming in RESPONDENT-F's mouth

    67

    7

    26

    RESPONDENT-F swallows PARTNER-M's cum

    67

    5

    27

    watch porn together

    67

    13

    21

    RESPONDENT-F goes out not wearing panties

    66

    15

    20

    PARTNER-M bites RESPONDENT-F

    65

    11

    24

    RESPONDENT-F goes out not wearing a bra

    65

    8

    26

    RESPONDENT-F spanks PARTNER-M with hand

    64

    8

    28

    have sex 30 days in a row

    63

    13

    24

    have sex in the woods or in a park

    63

    15

    22

    RESPONDENT-F is dominant toward PARTNER-M submissive

    63

    11

    26

    roleplay in costumes

    63

    11

    25

    RESPONDENT-F fondles PARTNER-M in a public setting (restaurant/theater)

    61

    21

    18

    use mirrors while having sex

    61

    15

    24

    PARTNER-M fondles RESPONDENT-F in a public setting (restaurant/theater)

    60

    22

    18

    PARTNER-M spanks RESPONDENT-F with toys (whip/paddle)

    60

    10

    29

    RESPONDENT-F goes out wearing crotchless panties

    60

    15

    26

    RESPONDENT-F is a sex slave for PARTNER-M for a day

    60

    15

    25

    PARTNER-M takes erotic pictures of RESPONDENT-F

    58

    12

    30

    read erotic fiction together

    58

    16

    26

    RESPONDENT-F attempts female ejaculation

    58

    13

    30

    have phone sex

    56

    14

    31

    PARTNER-M cums over RESPONDENT-F's face (facial)

    56

    6

    38

    PARTNER-M uses a remote control toy on RESPONDENT-F in a public setting

    56

    18

    26

    have sex while on RESPONDENT-F's period

    55

    4

    41

    use sex furniture (such as a sex swing or ramp)

    55

    17

    28

    have sex in the guest room at a party

    54

    20

    27

    PARTNER-M anally fingers RESPONDENT-F

    54

    9

    37

    RESPONDENT-F takes erotic pictures of PARTNER-M

    54

    13

    34

    PARTNER-M anally penetrates RESPONDENT-F

    53

    9

    38

    go to a strip club together

    52

    9

    38

    RESPONDENT-F spanks PARTNER-M with toys (whip/paddle)

    50

    6

    44

    PARTNER-M is a sex slave for RESPONDENT-F for a day

    49

    15

    36

    RESPONDENT-F anally fingers PARTNER-M

    48

    4

    47

    take pictures of us having sex

    48

    13

    39

    film ourselves having sex

    46

    12

    42

    PARTNER-M licks RESPONDENT-F's anus

    46

    7

    46

    PARTNER-M wears a butt plug during sex

    46

    6

    48

    RESPONDENT-F wears a butt plug during sex

    46

    12

    41

    have sex in front of an outward facing window

    45

    16

    39

    RESPONDENT-F is suspended while having sex with PARTNER-M

    45

    16

    38

    RESPONDENT-F gives PARTNER-M a foot job

    44

    4

    52

    have sex in a public restroom

    43

    10

    47

    have sex in a store dressing room

    43

    15

    42

    PARTNER-M uses nipple clamps on RESPONDENT-F

    43

    15

    42

    RESPONDENT-F uses nipple clamps on PARTNER-M

    42

    5

    53

    suck semen out of RESPONDENT-F after sex

    42

    7

    51

    have sex in work environment

    40

    13

    47

    go to a pleasure resort together

    39

    14

    46

    PARTNER-M is suspended while having sex with RESPONDENT-F

    37

    11

    52

    PARTNER-M roleplay rapes RESPONDENT-F

    37

    11

    53

    RESPONDENT-F anally pegs PARTNER-M with a strap-on

    37

    7

    55

    RESPONDENT-F wears a ball gag

    36

    9

    55

    go to a nudist resort together

    34

    9

    57

    RESPONDENT-F licks PARTNER-M's anus

    34

    5

    61

    PARTNER-M penetrates RESPONDENT-F with a strap-on

    32

    7

    61

    include another female in sex (menage-a-trois)

    31

    13

    56

    RESPONDENT-F wears a dog collar with a leash

    31

    8

    61

    include another male in sex (menage-a-trois)

    30

    13

    57

    go to a sex or swingers club together

    29

    11

    60

    PARTNER-M watches RESPONDENT-F have sex with another female

    29

    13

    58

    watch other couples have sex (live)

    28

    15

    58

    PARTNER-M anally pegs RESPONDENT-F with a strap-on

    26

    6

    69

    PARTNER-M watches RESPONDENT-F get felt up by a stranger

    26

    12

    62

    let other person/people/couples watch us have sex

    25

    12

    63

    PARTNER-M watches RESPONDENT-F get breasts rubbed by a stranger

    25

    13

    62

    PARTNER-M watches RESPONDENT-F have sex with another male

    25

    12

    64

    PARTNER-M wears a ball gag

    25

    5

    70

    PARTNER-M wears a hood

    25

    4

    71

    RESPONDENT-F fisted by PARTNER-M

    24

    8

    68

    RESPONDENT-F wears a hood

    24

    5

    71

    have sex monogamously with other couples (don't touch other couples)

    23

    12

    65

    PARTNER-M wears a dog collar with a leash

    23

    5

    72

    RESPONDENT-F double penetrated by PARTNER-M and another man

    23

    15

    62

    include another couple in sex (small orgy)

    20

    12

    68

    RESPONDENT-F cross dresses in clothing of the opposite sex

    20

    4

    77

    give each other a sexual Hall Pass

    19

    7

    73

    participate in an large orgy (more than 4 people)

    18

    9

    73

    PARTNER-M cross dresses in clothing of the opposite sex

    18

    3

    78

    RESPONDENT-F watches PARTNER-M have sex with another female

    17

    9

    73

    swap partners with another couple

    17

    9

    75

    show pictures / film of PARTNER-M over the internet

    16

    3

    80

    RESPONDENT-F watches PARTNER-M have sex with another male

    15

    7

    78

    show pictures / film of RESPONDENT-F over the internet

    15

    5

    80

    show pictures / film of us having sex over the internet

    15

    6

    79