QUESTION

YES/WILLING

AROUSED

NO

RESPONDENT-F gives PARTNER-M a hand job

94

3

3

PARTNER-M initiates sex more often towards RESPONDENT-F

90

6

4

PARTNER-M takes lead more during sex with RESPONDENT-F

90

8

2

PARTNER-M explores RESPONDENT-F's body

89

7

4

RESPONDENT-F explores PARTNER-M's body

89

7

4

RESPONDENT-F grinds pussy on PARTNER-M's penis

89

8

3

PARTNER-M shows favorite spots and techniques to RESPONDENT-F

88

9

3

have morning sex

87

7

5

RESPONDENT-F initiates sex more often towards PARTNER-M

87

8

5

have longer teasing and foreplay sessions

85

11

4

PARTNER-M gives RESPONDENT-F a sensual massage

85

10

4

RESPONDENT-F fondles PARTNER-M while watching tv/movie

85

11

5

RESPONDENT-F gives PARTNER-M a sensual massage

85

9

6

RESPONDENT-F wears risque lingerie

85

10

5

PARTNER-M fondles RESPONDENT-F while watching tv/movie

84

11

5

RESPONDENT-F trims / shaves / waxes around labia

84

3

13

RESPONDENT-F edges PARTNER-M near orgasm

83

10

7

RESPONDENT-F makes PARTNER-M cum multiple times in one sex session

83

12

5

RESPONDENT-F shows favorite spots and techniques to PARTNER-M

83

10

6

PARTNER-M buys sex toy to use on RESPONDENT-F

82

10

8

PARTNER-M uses vibrators on RESPONDENT-F in sex

82

9

9

PARTNER-M is dominant toward RESPONDENT-F submissive

81

9

10

PARTNER-M spanks RESPONDENT-F with hand

81

7

11

69 together

80

8

13

PARTNER-M cums over RESPONDENT-F's breasts/neck (pearl necklace)

80

7

13

PARTNER-M talks dirtier to RESPONDENT-F

80

11

9

RESPONDENT-F sits on PARTNER-M's penis without making him cum

80

11

9

RESPONDENT-F wakes up PARTNER-M with sex or oral sex

80

11

9

send each other sexy messages (text/email)

80

11

9

PARTNER-M blindfolds RESPONDENT-F

79

12

9

PARTNER-M edges RESPONDENT-F near orgasm

79

12

9

PARTNER-M thrusts penis between RESPONDENT-F's breasts

79

9

12

RESPONDENT-F takes lead more during sex with PARTNER-M

79

12

10

shop together for sex toy(s)

79

9

11

PARTNER-M restrains or ties down RESPONDENT-F

78

11

12

sexually tease each other for an entire day

78

14

8

have sex 7 days in a row

77

12

11

PARTNER-M trims / shaves / waxes around penis and scrotum

77

5

18

play sex games (board/card/online)

77

13

11

RESPONDENT-F blindfolds PARTNER-M

77

11

12

RESPONDENT-F sits on PARTNER-M's face while receiving oral

77

9

14

RESPONDENT-F talks dirtier to PARTNER-M

77

11

12

have sex 3 times in one day

76

14

11

PARTNER-M masturbates while letting RESPONDENT-F watch

75

11

14

RESPONDENT-F buys sex toy to use on self

75

10

15

PARTNER-M wakes up RESPONDENT-F with sex or oral sex

74

12

15

have sex in a car

73

12

15

RESPONDENT-F buys sex toy to use on PARTNER-M

73

9

18

RESPONDENT-F masturbates while letting PARTNER-M watch

73

10

17

PARTNER-M wears a cock ring during sex

72

9

19

RESPONDENT-F restrains or ties down PARTNER-M

72

10

18

PARTNER-M buys sex toy to use on self

71

10

19

PARTNER-M leaves sex invites for RESPONDENT-F

70

15

15

RESPONDENT-F leaves sex invites for PARTNER-M

70

15

15

PARTNER-M uses dildos on RESPONDENT-F in sex

69

9

22

practice kegel exercises while having sex

69

9

21

RESPONDENT-F bites PARTNER-M

69

9

22

RESPONDENT-F swallows PARTNER-M's cum

69

5

27

RESPONDENT-F uses vibrators on PARTNER-M in sex

69

7

23

RESPONDENT-F goes out not wearing panties

67

13

20

kiss after cuming in RESPONDENT-F's mouth

66

7

27

PARTNER-M bites RESPONDENT-F

66

11

24

RESPONDENT-F goes out not wearing a bra

66

7

27

watch porn together

66

13

21

RESPONDENT-F is dominant toward PARTNER-M submissive

64

12

25

RESPONDENT-F spanks PARTNER-M with hand

64

7

29

have sex 30 days in a row

63

12

25

have sex in the woods or in a park

63

14

23

use mirrors while having sex

63

14

23

RESPONDENT-F fondles PARTNER-M in a public setting (restaurant/theater)

62

20

18

roleplay in costumes

62

12

25

PARTNER-M fondles RESPONDENT-F in a public setting (restaurant/theater)

60

21

19

RESPONDENT-F attempts female ejaculation

60

12

28

RESPONDENT-F goes out wearing crotchless panties

60

14

26

PARTNER-M spanks RESPONDENT-F with toys (whip/paddle)

59

11

31

RESPONDENT-F is a sex slave for PARTNER-M for a day

59

14

26

PARTNER-M takes erotic pictures of RESPONDENT-F

58

12

30

have phone sex

57

13

30

PARTNER-M cums over RESPONDENT-F's face (facial)

57

6

37

PARTNER-M uses a remote control toy on RESPONDENT-F in a public setting

57

18

25

have sex while on RESPONDENT-F's period

56

3

40

read erotic fiction together

56

16

28

RESPONDENT-F takes erotic pictures of PARTNER-M

55

11

34

use sex furniture (such as a sex swing or ramp)

55

16

29

PARTNER-M anally fingers RESPONDENT-F

54

9

36

have sex in the guest room at a party

53

18

29

PARTNER-M anally penetrates RESPONDENT-F

51

11

39

go to a strip club together

50

9

41

PARTNER-M is a sex slave for RESPONDENT-F for a day

49

13

38

RESPONDENT-F spanks PARTNER-M with toys (whip/paddle)

49

7

45

PARTNER-M licks RESPONDENT-F's anus

48

8

45

RESPONDENT-F wears a butt plug during sex

48

12

41

take pictures of us having sex

48

12

40

film ourselves having sex

47

12

42

RESPONDENT-F anally fingers PARTNER-M

47

5

47

RESPONDENT-F gives PARTNER-M a foot job

46

5

50

RESPONDENT-F is suspended while having sex with PARTNER-M

46

15

39

have sex in front of an outward facing window

44

16

40

PARTNER-M uses nipple clamps on RESPONDENT-F

44

13

43

PARTNER-M wears a butt plug during sex

44

6

50

have sex in a public restroom

41

11

49

RESPONDENT-F uses nipple clamps on PARTNER-M

41

6

53

suck semen out of RESPONDENT-F after sex

41

8

51

have sex in a store dressing room

40

16

44

go to a pleasure resort together

38

14

48

have sex in work environment

38

13

49

RESPONDENT-F anally pegs PARTNER-M with a strap-on

37

6

57

RESPONDENT-F licks PARTNER-M's anus

37

5

59

PARTNER-M is suspended while having sex with RESPONDENT-F

36

8

56

RESPONDENT-F wears a ball gag

36

8

56

PARTNER-M roleplay rapes RESPONDENT-F

35

10

55

RESPONDENT-F wears a dog collar with a leash

33

7

61

go to a nudist resort together

31

9

60

PARTNER-M penetrates RESPONDENT-F with a strap-on

31

7

62

go to a sex or swingers club together

28

10

62

include another female in sex (menage-a-trois)

28

13

59

include another male in sex (menage-a-trois)

26

13

61

PARTNER-M wears a ball gag

26

5

70

watch other couples have sex (live)

26

13

61

PARTNER-M anally pegs RESPONDENT-F with a strap-on

25

6

70

PARTNER-M watches RESPONDENT-F have sex with another female

25

13

62

PARTNER-M watches RESPONDENT-F get breasts rubbed by a stranger

24

11

65

PARTNER-M wears a dog collar with a leash

24

4

72

PARTNER-M wears a hood

24

4

72

RESPONDENT-F fisted by PARTNER-M

24

9

67

RESPONDENT-F wears a hood

24

5

71

give each other permission to get a happy ending massage

23

7

70

let other person/people/couples watch us have sex

23

12

65

PARTNER-M watches RESPONDENT-F get felt up by a stranger

23

12

65

have sex monogamously with other couples (don't touch other couples)

22

11

67

RESPONDENT-F double penetrated by PARTNER-M and another man

22

13

65

PARTNER-M watches RESPONDENT-F have sex with another male

20

10

70

RESPONDENT-F cross dresses in clothing of the opposite sex

19

3

78

give each other a sexual Hall Pass

18

6

76

include another couple in sex (small orgy)

18

11

71

PARTNER-M cross dresses in clothing of the opposite sex

17

3

79

participate in an large orgy (more than 4 people)

16

9

75

RESPONDENT-F watches PARTNER-M have sex with another female

16

8

76

show pictures / film of PARTNER-M over the internet

16

4

81

show pictures / film of RESPONDENT-F over the internet

15

5

80

swap partners with another couple

15

8

77

show pictures / film of us having sex over the internet

14

6

80

RESPONDENT-F watches PARTNER-M have sex with another male

13

6

81