Top Fantasies

Below are the rankings of fantasies from the selected gender combination of respondents and partners. The numberical values are a percent of total respondents.

  • FEMALE respondent MALE partner
  • MALE respondent FEMALE partner
  • FEMALE respondent FEMALE partner
  • MALE respondent MALE partner

  • MALE respondent + FEMALE partner

    QUESTION

    YES/WILLING

    AROUSED

    NO

    RESPONDENT-M initiates sex more often towards PARTNER-F

    94

    5

    2

    have morning sex

    93

    5

    2

    PARTNER-F initiates sex more often towards RESPONDENT-M

    93

    5

    1

    RESPONDENT-M explores PARTNER-F's body

    93

    5

    2

    PARTNER-F explores RESPONDENT-M's body

    92

    6

    3

    PARTNER-F gives RESPONDENT-M a hand job

    92

    5

    3

    PARTNER-F shows favorite spots and techniques to RESPONDENT-M

    91

    7

    2

    RESPONDENT-M takes lead more during sex with PARTNER-F

    91

    7

    3

    69 together

    90

    6

    4

    PARTNER-F grinds pussy on RESPONDENT-M's penis

    90

    8

    2

    PARTNER-F sits on RESPONDENT-M's face while receiving oral

    90

    6

    4

    PARTNER-F wakes up RESPONDENT-M with sex or oral sex

    90

    7

    3

    RESPONDENT-M wakes up PARTNER-F with sex or oral sex

    90

    7

    3

    RESPONDENT-M fondles PARTNER-F while watching tv/movie

    89

    10

    2

    RESPONDENT-M gives PARTNER-F a sensual massage

    89

    8

    3

    have longer teasing and foreplay sessions

    88

    9

    3

    PARTNER-F fondles RESPONDENT-M while watching tv/movie

    88

    10

    2

    PARTNER-F swallows RESPONDENT-M's cum

    88

    7

    5

    RESPONDENT-M spanks PARTNER-F with hand

    88

    6

    6

    RESPONDENT-M uses vibrators on PARTNER-F in sex

    88

    6

    6

    have sex 7 days in a row

    87

    9

    4

    PARTNER-F masturbates while letting RESPONDENT-M watch

    87

    9

    4

    RESPONDENT-M buys sex toy to use on PARTNER-F

    87

    8

    6

    RESPONDENT-M cums over PARTNER-F's breasts/neck (pearl necklace)

    87

    8

    5

    RESPONDENT-M edges PARTNER-F near orgasm

    87

    9

    4

    RESPONDENT-M shows favorite spots and techniques to PARTNER-F

    87

    9

    4

    RESPONDENT-M talks dirtier to PARTNER-F

    87

    8

    5

    PARTNER-F talks dirtier to RESPONDENT-M

    86

    10

    4

    RESPONDENT-M blindfolds PARTNER-F

    86

    9

    5

    RESPONDENT-M trims / shaves / waxes around penis and scrotum

    86

    3

    11

    have sex 3 times in one day

    85

    10

    5

    PARTNER-F buys sex toy to use on self

    85

    9

    6

    PARTNER-F takes lead more during sex with RESPONDENT-M

    85

    12

    3

    RESPONDENT-M restrains or ties down PARTNER-F

    85

    8

    7

    PARTNER-F attempts female ejaculation

    84

    9

    7

    PARTNER-F gives RESPONDENT-M a sensual massage

    84

    10

    6

    PARTNER-F makes RESPONDENT-M cum multiple times in one sex session

    84

    12

    4

    RESPONDENT-M is dominant toward PARTNER-F submissive

    84

    8

    8

    RESPONDENT-M thrusts penis between PARTNER-F's breasts

    84

    10

    6

    send each other sexy messages (text/email)

    84

    10

    6

    shop together for sex toy(s)

    84

    9

    7

    PARTNER-F edges RESPONDENT-M near orgasm

    83

    11

    6

    PARTNER-F trims / shaves / waxes around labia

    83

    7

    10

    sexually tease each other for an entire day

    83

    12

    5

    RESPONDENT-M masturbates while letting PARTNER-F watch

    82

    8

    10

    RESPONDENT-M uses dildos on PARTNER-F in sex

    82

    7

    11

    PARTNER-F wears risque lingerie

    81

    9

    10

    play sex games (board/card/online)

    81

    11

    8

    RESPONDENT-M cums over PARTNER-F's face (facial)

    81

    9

    10

    PARTNER-F sits on RESPONDENT-M's penis without making him cum

    80

    12

    8

    have sex in a car

    79

    11

    11

    RESPONDENT-M anally penetrates PARTNER-F

    79

    7

    13

    RESPONDENT-M takes erotic pictures of PARTNER-F

    79

    11

    11

    have sex 30 days in a row

    78

    11

    11

    PARTNER-F blindfolds RESPONDENT-M

    78

    12

    10

    RESPONDENT-M anally fingers PARTNER-F

    78

    7

    15

    PARTNER-F leaves sex invites for RESPONDENT-M

    77

    14

    9

    watch porn together

    77

    12

    12

    PARTNER-F goes out not wearing panties

    76

    14

    9

    PARTNER-F restrains or ties down RESPONDENT-M

    76

    10

    14

    RESPONDENT-M leaves sex invites for PARTNER-F

    76

    14

    10

    have sex in the woods or in a park

    75

    12

    13

    PARTNER-F goes out not wearing a bra

    75

    13

    13

    PARTNER-F is dominant toward RESPONDENT-M submissive

    75

    11

    15

    PARTNER-F is a sex slave for RESPONDENT-M for a day

    73

    13

    14

    PARTNER-F wears a butt plug during sex

    73

    11

    16

    RESPONDENT-M uses a remote control toy on PARTNER-F in a public setting

    73

    14

    13

    RESPONDENT-M bites PARTNER-F

    72

    7

    20

    RESPONDENT-M fondles PARTNER-F in a public setting (restaurant/theater)

    72

    16

    11

    RESPONDENT-M wears a cock ring during sex

    72

    9

    19

    use mirrors while having sex

    72

    15

    14

    PARTNER-F buys sex toy to use on RESPONDENT-M

    71

    10

    19

    PARTNER-F goes out wearing crotchless panties

    71

    15

    14

    RESPONDENT-M spanks PARTNER-F with toys (whip/paddle)

    71

    8

    21

    PARTNER-F fondles RESPONDENT-M in a public setting (restaurant/theater)

    70

    17

    12

    RESPONDENT-M is a sex slave for PARTNER-F for a day

    70

    12

    18

    take pictures of us having sex

    70

    11

    19

    film ourselves having sex

    69

    11

    19

    roleplay in costumes

    69

    12

    18

    practice kegel exercises while having sex

    68

    12

    20

    RESPONDENT-M licks PARTNER-F's anus

    68

    6

    26

    PARTNER-F takes erotic pictures of RESPONDENT-M

    67

    8

    25

    have phone sex

    66

    13

    21

    PARTNER-F bites RESPONDENT-M

    66

    10

    24

    RESPONDENT-M uses nipple clamps on PARTNER-F

    66

    9

    25

    kiss after cuming in PARTNER-F's mouth

    65

    7

    27

    use sex furniture (such as a sex swing or ramp)

    65

    14

    21

    have sex in the guest room at a party

    64

    16

    20

    PARTNER-F spanks RESPONDENT-M with hand

    63

    8

    29

    read erotic fiction together

    63

    14

    23

    RESPONDENT-M buys sex toy to use on self

    61

    12

    27

    PARTNER-F uses vibrators on RESPONDENT-M in sex

    60

    9

    30

    go to a strip club together

    59

    9

    32

    have sex while on PARTNER-F's period

    59

    3

    38

    have sex in front of an outward facing window

    58

    16

    27

    have sex in a store dressing room

    57

    16

    27

    PARTNER-F is suspended while having sex with RESPONDENT-M

    57

    14

    30

    have sex in a public restroom

    53

    11

    37

    include another female in sex (menage-a-trois)

    53

    15

    32

    PARTNER-F anally fingers RESPONDENT-M

    53

    9

    39

    have sex in work environment

    52

    12

    35

    PARTNER-F licks RESPONDENT-M's anus

    50

    8

    42

    PARTNER-F wears a ball gag

    50

    10

    39

    go to a pleasure resort together

    49

    14

    37

    PARTNER-F spanks RESPONDENT-M with toys (whip/paddle)

    49

    7

    43

    PARTNER-F fisted by RESPONDENT-M

    48

    8

    45

    PARTNER-F gives RESPONDENT-M a foot job

    48

    10

    43

    RESPONDENT-M watches PARTNER-F have sex with another female

    48

    18

    34

    PARTNER-F wears a dog collar with a leash

    46

    8

    46

    RESPONDENT-M anally pegs PARTNER-F with a strap-on

    45

    6

    49

    RESPONDENT-M penetrates PARTNER-F with a strap-on

    45

    7

    49

    RESPONDENT-M roleplay rapes PARTNER-F

    45

    7

    48

    go to a nudist resort together

    44

    10

    46

    PARTNER-F anally pegs RESPONDENT-M with a strap-on

    42

    8

    50

    RESPONDENT-M is suspended while having sex with PARTNER-F

    42

    11

    47

    RESPONDENT-M wears a butt plug during sex

    42

    9

    49

    watch other couples have sex (live)

    42

    15

    44

    go to a sex or swingers club together

    40

    10

    49

    suck semen out of PARTNER-F after sex

    40

    7

    53

    let other person/people/couples watch us have sex

    38

    13

    49

    PARTNER-F uses nipple clamps on RESPONDENT-M

    38

    7

    56

    include another male in sex (menage-a-trois)

    37

    10

    54

    have sex monogamously with other couples (don't touch other couples)

    36

    13

    51

    PARTNER-F watches RESPONDENT-M have sex with another female

    36

    12

    52

    give each other permission to get a happy ending massage

    34

    11

    55

    PARTNER-F wears a hood

    34

    6

    60

    PARTNER-F double penetrated by RESPONDENT-M and another man

    32

    12

    55

    RESPONDENT-M wears a dog collar with a leash

    32

    5

    63

    RESPONDENT-M wears a hood

    32

    5

    63

    include another couple in sex (small orgy)

    31

    13

    56

    RESPONDENT-M watches PARTNER-F get breasts rubbed by a stranger

    31

    13

    56

    RESPONDENT-M wears a ball gag

    31

    5

    64

    RESPONDENT-M watches PARTNER-F get felt up by a stranger

    30

    12

    57

    RESPONDENT-M watches PARTNER-F have sex with another male

    28

    11

    61

    swap partners with another couple

    28

    11

    61

    participate in an large orgy (more than 4 people)

    27

    12

    61

    show pictures / film of PARTNER-F over the internet

    27

    8

    65

    show pictures / film of us having sex over the internet

    26

    9

    65

    give each other a sexual Hall Pass

    25

    9

    66

    show pictures / film of RESPONDENT-M over the internet

    24

    7

    69

    PARTNER-F cross dresses in clothing of the opposite sex

    21

    4

    75

    RESPONDENT-M cross dresses in clothing of the opposite sex

    21

    4

    75

    PARTNER-F watches RESPONDENT-M have sex with another male

    14

    4

    82