Top Fantasies

Below are the rankings of fantasies from the selected gender combination of respondents and partners. The numberical values are a percent of total respondents.

  • FEMALE respondent MALE partner
  • MALE respondent FEMALE partner
  • FEMALE respondent FEMALE partner
  • MALE respondent MALE partner

  • MALE respondent + FEMALE partner

    QUESTION

    YES/WILLING

    AROUSED

    NO

    have morning sex

    94

    5

    2

    PARTNER-F initiates sex more often towards RESPONDENT-M

    94

    5

    1

    RESPONDENT-M initiates sex more often towards PARTNER-F

    94

    4

    1

    RESPONDENT-M explores PARTNER-F's body

    93

    5

    2

    PARTNER-F explores RESPONDENT-M's body

    92

    6

    3

    PARTNER-F gives RESPONDENT-M a hand job

    92

    6

    3

    PARTNER-F wakes up RESPONDENT-M with sex or oral sex

    91

    6

    3

    69 together

    90

    6

    4

    PARTNER-F shows favorite spots and techniques to RESPONDENT-M

    90

    7

    3

    PARTNER-F sits on RESPONDENT-M's face while receiving oral

    90

    6

    4

    RESPONDENT-M takes lead more during sex with PARTNER-F

    90

    7

    3

    RESPONDENT-M wakes up PARTNER-F with sex or oral sex

    90

    7

    3

    PARTNER-F grinds pussy on RESPONDENT-M's penis

    89

    9

    2

    have sex 7 days in a row

    88

    9

    4

    PARTNER-F fondles RESPONDENT-M while watching tv/movie

    88

    9

    2

    PARTNER-F swallows RESPONDENT-M's cum

    88

    7

    5

    RESPONDENT-M fondles PARTNER-F while watching tv/movie

    88

    10

    2

    RESPONDENT-M gives PARTNER-F a sensual massage

    88

    9

    3

    RESPONDENT-M uses vibrators on PARTNER-F in sex

    88

    6

    6

    have longer teasing and foreplay sessions

    87

    10

    3

    RESPONDENT-M blindfolds PARTNER-F

    87

    8

    5

    RESPONDENT-M buys sex toy to use on PARTNER-F

    87

    7

    6

    RESPONDENT-M edges PARTNER-F near orgasm

    87

    9

    4

    RESPONDENT-M spanks PARTNER-F with hand

    87

    6

    7

    have sex 3 times in one day

    86

    10

    4

    PARTNER-F masturbates while letting RESPONDENT-M watch

    86

    9

    5

    PARTNER-F talks dirtier to RESPONDENT-M

    86

    10

    4

    RESPONDENT-M cums over PARTNER-F's breasts/neck (pearl necklace)

    86

    8

    5

    RESPONDENT-M restrains or ties down PARTNER-F

    86

    7

    7

    RESPONDENT-M shows favorite spots and techniques to PARTNER-F

    86

    9

    5

    RESPONDENT-M talks dirtier to PARTNER-F

    86

    8

    5

    RESPONDENT-M trims / shaves / waxes around penis and scrotum

    86

    4

    11

    PARTNER-F makes RESPONDENT-M cum multiple times in one sex session

    85

    11

    4

    shop together for sex toy(s)

    85

    8

    7

    PARTNER-F buys sex toy to use on self

    84

    9

    6

    PARTNER-F edges RESPONDENT-M near orgasm

    84

    10

    6

    PARTNER-F takes lead more during sex with RESPONDENT-M

    84

    13

    3

    PARTNER-F trims / shaves / waxes around labia

    84

    7

    9

    RESPONDENT-M thrusts penis between PARTNER-F's breasts

    84

    10

    6

    send each other sexy messages (text/email)

    84

    11

    6

    PARTNER-F gives RESPONDENT-M a sensual massage

    83

    11

    6

    RESPONDENT-M is dominant toward PARTNER-F submissive

    83

    9

    8

    RESPONDENT-M uses dildos on PARTNER-F in sex

    83

    7

    9

    sexually tease each other for an entire day

    83

    12

    5

    PARTNER-F attempts female ejaculation

    82

    10

    8

    play sex games (board/card/online)

    82

    10

    7

    RESPONDENT-M masturbates while letting PARTNER-F watch

    82

    9

    10

    PARTNER-F wears risque lingerie

    81

    9

    10

    PARTNER-F blindfolds RESPONDENT-M

    80

    10

    10

    RESPONDENT-M cums over PARTNER-F's face (facial)

    80

    9

    11

    have sex 30 days in a row

    79

    11

    10

    PARTNER-F leaves sex invites for RESPONDENT-M

    79

    13

    8

    PARTNER-F sits on RESPONDENT-M's penis without making him cum

    79

    13

    8

    RESPONDENT-M anally fingers PARTNER-F

    79

    7

    15

    RESPONDENT-M anally penetrates PARTNER-F

    79

    7

    14

    RESPONDENT-M takes erotic pictures of PARTNER-F

    79

    11

    10

    have sex in a car

    78

    12

    10

    PARTNER-F goes out not wearing panties

    78

    14

    8

    RESPONDENT-M leaves sex invites for PARTNER-F

    78

    13

    9

    PARTNER-F restrains or ties down RESPONDENT-M

    77

    10

    13

    watch porn together

    77

    12

    11

    have sex in the woods or in a park

    76

    12

    12

    PARTNER-F goes out not wearing a bra

    76

    13

    12

    PARTNER-F is a sex slave for RESPONDENT-M for a day

    75

    12

    13

    PARTNER-F is dominant toward RESPONDENT-M submissive

    75

    11

    15

    PARTNER-F goes out wearing crotchless panties

    74

    14

    12

    RESPONDENT-M uses a remote control toy on PARTNER-F in a public setting

    74

    13

    13

    RESPONDENT-M wears a cock ring during sex

    74

    9

    17

    PARTNER-F buys sex toy to use on RESPONDENT-M

    73

    10

    18

    RESPONDENT-M fondles PARTNER-F in a public setting (restaurant/theater)

    73

    17

    10

    use mirrors while having sex

    73

    13

    14

    PARTNER-F fondles RESPONDENT-M in a public setting (restaurant/theater)

    72

    18

    10

    PARTNER-F wears a butt plug during sex

    72

    11

    17

    RESPONDENT-M is a sex slave for PARTNER-F for a day

    72

    12

    16

    RESPONDENT-M spanks PARTNER-F with toys (whip/paddle)

    72

    8

    20

    RESPONDENT-M bites PARTNER-F

    71

    8

    21

    roleplay in costumes

    71

    12

    16

    film ourselves having sex

    70

    11

    19

    practice kegel exercises while having sex

    70

    13

    18

    take pictures of us having sex

    69

    11

    19

    PARTNER-F takes erotic pictures of RESPONDENT-M

    68

    8

    24

    RESPONDENT-M licks PARTNER-F's anus

    68

    6

    26

    RESPONDENT-M uses nipple clamps on PARTNER-F

    68

    9

    23

    have phone sex

    67

    12

    21

    kiss after cuming in PARTNER-F's mouth

    67

    7

    27

    use sex furniture (such as a sex swing or ramp)

    67

    14

    19

    have sex in the guest room at a party

    66

    15

    19

    read erotic fiction together

    66

    14

    20

    PARTNER-F bites RESPONDENT-M

    65

    10

    26

    PARTNER-F uses vibrators on RESPONDENT-M in sex

    65

    8

    27

    PARTNER-F spanks RESPONDENT-M with hand

    64

    8

    28

    RESPONDENT-M buys sex toy to use on self

    63

    12

    25

    go to a strip club together

    61

    10

    29

    have sex in a store dressing room

    60

    16

    25

    have sex while on PARTNER-F's period

    59

    3

    38

    have sex in front of an outward facing window

    58

    14

    28

    PARTNER-F is suspended while having sex with RESPONDENT-M

    58

    15

    27

    have sex in work environment

    54

    12

    35

    PARTNER-F anally fingers RESPONDENT-M

    54

    8

    37

    have sex in a public restroom

    53

    11

    35

    include another female in sex (menage-a-trois)

    53

    15

    32

    PARTNER-F licks RESPONDENT-M's anus

    51

    8

    41

    PARTNER-F spanks RESPONDENT-M with toys (whip/paddle)

    51

    8

    42

    PARTNER-F wears a ball gag

    51

    10

    39

    go to a pleasure resort together

    49

    15

    36

    PARTNER-F gives RESPONDENT-M a foot job

    48

    9

    43

    PARTNER-F fisted by RESPONDENT-M

    47

    8

    44

    PARTNER-F wears a dog collar with a leash

    47

    7

    46

    RESPONDENT-M roleplay rapes PARTNER-F

    47

    7

    45

    RESPONDENT-M watches PARTNER-F have sex with another female

    47

    18

    35

    RESPONDENT-M anally pegs PARTNER-F with a strap-on

    46

    5

    48

    RESPONDENT-M penetrates PARTNER-F with a strap-on

    46

    7

    47

    RESPONDENT-M is suspended while having sex with PARTNER-F

    45

    12

    44

    PARTNER-F anally pegs RESPONDENT-M with a strap-on

    43

    8

    49

    RESPONDENT-M wears a butt plug during sex

    43

    10

    48

    watch other couples have sex (live)

    43

    15

    42

    go to a nudist resort together

    42

    11

    47

    go to a sex or swingers club together

    41

    11

    48

    suck semen out of PARTNER-F after sex

    40

    6

    54

    let other person/people/couples watch us have sex

    39

    13

    48

    PARTNER-F uses nipple clamps on RESPONDENT-M

    38

    7

    55

    include another male in sex (menage-a-trois)

    36

    10

    54

    have sex monogamously with other couples (don't touch other couples)

    35

    12

    52

    PARTNER-F watches RESPONDENT-M have sex with another female

    35

    13

    52

    PARTNER-F wears a hood

    34

    6

    60

    PARTNER-F double penetrated by RESPONDENT-M and another man

    32

    13

    55

    RESPONDENT-M wears a ball gag

    32

    5

    63

    RESPONDENT-M wears a hood

    32

    5

    63

    RESPONDENT-M watches PARTNER-F get breasts rubbed by a stranger

    31

    14

    55

    RESPONDENT-M wears a dog collar with a leash

    31

    6

    63

    include another couple in sex (small orgy)

    30

    14

    56

    RESPONDENT-M watches PARTNER-F get felt up by a stranger

    30

    13

    57

    RESPONDENT-M watches PARTNER-F have sex with another male

    29

    12

    59

    participate in an large orgy (more than 4 people)

    27

    12

    61

    swap partners with another couple

    27

    12

    61

    show pictures / film of PARTNER-F over the internet

    26

    8

    67

    give each other a sexual Hall Pass

    25

    9

    66

    show pictures / film of us having sex over the internet

    25

    8

    67

    RESPONDENT-M cross dresses in clothing of the opposite sex

    23

    4

    73

    show pictures / film of RESPONDENT-M over the internet

    23

    7

    70

    PARTNER-F cross dresses in clothing of the opposite sex

    21

    4

    75

    PARTNER-F watches RESPONDENT-M have sex with another male

    11

    5

    84