Below are the rankings of fantasies from the selected gender combination of respondents and partners. The numberical values are a percent of total respondents.
QUESTION | YES/WILLING | AROUSED | NO |
RESPONDENT-M initiates sex more often towards PARTNER-F | 94 | 5 | 2 |
have morning sex | 93 | 5 | 2 |
PARTNER-F initiates sex more often towards RESPONDENT-M | 93 | 5 | 1 |
RESPONDENT-M explores PARTNER-F's body | 93 | 5 | 2 |
PARTNER-F explores RESPONDENT-M's body | 92 | 6 | 3 |
PARTNER-F gives RESPONDENT-M a hand job | 92 | 5 | 3 |
PARTNER-F shows favorite spots and techniques to RESPONDENT-M | 91 | 7 | 2 |
RESPONDENT-M takes lead more during sex with PARTNER-F | 91 | 7 | 3 |
69 together | 90 | 6 | 4 |
PARTNER-F grinds pussy on RESPONDENT-M's penis | 90 | 8 | 2 |
PARTNER-F sits on RESPONDENT-M's face while receiving oral | 90 | 6 | 4 |
PARTNER-F wakes up RESPONDENT-M with sex or oral sex | 90 | 7 | 3 |
RESPONDENT-M wakes up PARTNER-F with sex or oral sex | 90 | 7 | 3 |
RESPONDENT-M fondles PARTNER-F while watching tv/movie | 89 | 10 | 2 |
RESPONDENT-M gives PARTNER-F a sensual massage | 89 | 8 | 3 |
have longer teasing and foreplay sessions | 88 | 9 | 3 |
PARTNER-F fondles RESPONDENT-M while watching tv/movie | 88 | 10 | 2 |
PARTNER-F swallows RESPONDENT-M's cum | 88 | 7 | 5 |
RESPONDENT-M spanks PARTNER-F with hand | 88 | 6 | 6 |
RESPONDENT-M uses vibrators on PARTNER-F in sex | 88 | 6 | 6 |
have sex 7 days in a row | 87 | 9 | 4 |
PARTNER-F masturbates while letting RESPONDENT-M watch | 87 | 9 | 4 |
RESPONDENT-M buys sex toy to use on PARTNER-F | 87 | 8 | 6 |
RESPONDENT-M cums over PARTNER-F's breasts/neck (pearl necklace) | 87 | 8 | 5 |
RESPONDENT-M edges PARTNER-F near orgasm | 87 | 9 | 4 |
RESPONDENT-M shows favorite spots and techniques to PARTNER-F | 87 | 9 | 4 |
RESPONDENT-M talks dirtier to PARTNER-F | 87 | 8 | 5 |
PARTNER-F talks dirtier to RESPONDENT-M | 86 | 10 | 4 |
RESPONDENT-M blindfolds PARTNER-F | 86 | 9 | 5 |
RESPONDENT-M trims / shaves / waxes around penis and scrotum | 86 | 3 | 11 |
have sex 3 times in one day | 85 | 10 | 5 |
PARTNER-F buys sex toy to use on self | 85 | 9 | 6 |
PARTNER-F takes lead more during sex with RESPONDENT-M | 85 | 12 | 3 |
RESPONDENT-M restrains or ties down PARTNER-F | 85 | 8 | 7 |
PARTNER-F attempts female ejaculation | 84 | 9 | 7 |
PARTNER-F gives RESPONDENT-M a sensual massage | 84 | 10 | 6 |
PARTNER-F makes RESPONDENT-M cum multiple times in one sex session | 84 | 12 | 4 |
RESPONDENT-M is dominant toward PARTNER-F submissive | 84 | 8 | 8 |
RESPONDENT-M thrusts penis between PARTNER-F's breasts | 84 | 10 | 6 |
send each other sexy messages (text/email) | 84 | 10 | 6 |
shop together for sex toy(s) | 84 | 9 | 7 |
PARTNER-F edges RESPONDENT-M near orgasm | 83 | 11 | 6 |
PARTNER-F trims / shaves / waxes around labia | 83 | 7 | 10 |
sexually tease each other for an entire day | 83 | 12 | 5 |
RESPONDENT-M masturbates while letting PARTNER-F watch | 82 | 8 | 10 |
RESPONDENT-M uses dildos on PARTNER-F in sex | 82 | 7 | 11 |
PARTNER-F wears risque lingerie | 81 | 9 | 10 |
play sex games (board/card/online) | 81 | 11 | 8 |
RESPONDENT-M cums over PARTNER-F's face (facial) | 81 | 9 | 10 |
PARTNER-F sits on RESPONDENT-M's penis without making him cum | 80 | 12 | 8 |
have sex in a car | 79 | 11 | 11 |
RESPONDENT-M anally penetrates PARTNER-F | 79 | 7 | 13 |
RESPONDENT-M takes erotic pictures of PARTNER-F | 79 | 11 | 11 |
have sex 30 days in a row | 78 | 11 | 11 |
PARTNER-F blindfolds RESPONDENT-M | 78 | 12 | 10 |
RESPONDENT-M anally fingers PARTNER-F | 78 | 7 | 15 |
PARTNER-F leaves sex invites for RESPONDENT-M | 77 | 14 | 9 |
watch porn together | 77 | 12 | 12 |
PARTNER-F goes out not wearing panties | 76 | 14 | 9 |
PARTNER-F restrains or ties down RESPONDENT-M | 76 | 10 | 14 |
RESPONDENT-M leaves sex invites for PARTNER-F | 76 | 14 | 10 |
have sex in the woods or in a park | 75 | 12 | 13 |
PARTNER-F goes out not wearing a bra | 75 | 13 | 13 |
PARTNER-F is dominant toward RESPONDENT-M submissive | 75 | 11 | 15 |
PARTNER-F is a sex slave for RESPONDENT-M for a day | 73 | 13 | 14 |
PARTNER-F wears a butt plug during sex | 73 | 11 | 16 |
RESPONDENT-M uses a remote control toy on PARTNER-F in a public setting | 73 | 14 | 13 |
RESPONDENT-M bites PARTNER-F | 72 | 7 | 20 |
RESPONDENT-M fondles PARTNER-F in a public setting (restaurant/theater) | 72 | 16 | 11 |
RESPONDENT-M wears a cock ring during sex | 72 | 9 | 19 |
use mirrors while having sex | 72 | 15 | 14 |
PARTNER-F buys sex toy to use on RESPONDENT-M | 71 | 10 | 19 |
PARTNER-F goes out wearing crotchless panties | 71 | 15 | 14 |
RESPONDENT-M spanks PARTNER-F with toys (whip/paddle) | 71 | 8 | 21 |
PARTNER-F fondles RESPONDENT-M in a public setting (restaurant/theater) | 70 | 17 | 12 |
RESPONDENT-M is a sex slave for PARTNER-F for a day | 70 | 12 | 18 |
take pictures of us having sex | 70 | 11 | 19 |
film ourselves having sex | 69 | 11 | 19 |
roleplay in costumes | 69 | 12 | 18 |
practice kegel exercises while having sex | 68 | 12 | 20 |
RESPONDENT-M licks PARTNER-F's anus | 68 | 6 | 26 |
PARTNER-F takes erotic pictures of RESPONDENT-M | 67 | 8 | 25 |
have phone sex | 66 | 13 | 21 |
PARTNER-F bites RESPONDENT-M | 66 | 10 | 24 |
RESPONDENT-M uses nipple clamps on PARTNER-F | 66 | 9 | 25 |
kiss after cuming in PARTNER-F's mouth | 65 | 7 | 27 |
use sex furniture (such as a sex swing or ramp) | 65 | 14 | 21 |
have sex in the guest room at a party | 64 | 16 | 20 |
PARTNER-F spanks RESPONDENT-M with hand | 63 | 8 | 29 |
read erotic fiction together | 63 | 14 | 23 |
RESPONDENT-M buys sex toy to use on self | 61 | 12 | 27 |
PARTNER-F uses vibrators on RESPONDENT-M in sex | 60 | 9 | 30 |
go to a strip club together | 59 | 9 | 32 |
have sex while on PARTNER-F's period | 59 | 3 | 38 |
have sex in front of an outward facing window | 58 | 16 | 27 |
have sex in a store dressing room | 57 | 16 | 27 |
PARTNER-F is suspended while having sex with RESPONDENT-M | 57 | 14 | 30 |
have sex in a public restroom | 53 | 11 | 37 |
include another female in sex (menage-a-trois) | 53 | 15 | 32 |
PARTNER-F anally fingers RESPONDENT-M | 53 | 9 | 39 |
have sex in work environment | 52 | 12 | 35 |
PARTNER-F licks RESPONDENT-M's anus | 50 | 8 | 42 |
PARTNER-F wears a ball gag | 50 | 10 | 39 |
go to a pleasure resort together | 49 | 14 | 37 |
PARTNER-F spanks RESPONDENT-M with toys (whip/paddle) | 49 | 7 | 43 |
PARTNER-F fisted by RESPONDENT-M | 48 | 8 | 45 |
PARTNER-F gives RESPONDENT-M a foot job | 48 | 10 | 43 |
RESPONDENT-M watches PARTNER-F have sex with another female | 48 | 18 | 34 |
PARTNER-F wears a dog collar with a leash | 46 | 8 | 46 |
RESPONDENT-M anally pegs PARTNER-F with a strap-on | 45 | 6 | 49 |
RESPONDENT-M penetrates PARTNER-F with a strap-on | 45 | 7 | 49 |
RESPONDENT-M roleplay rapes PARTNER-F | 45 | 7 | 48 |
go to a nudist resort together | 44 | 10 | 46 |
PARTNER-F anally pegs RESPONDENT-M with a strap-on | 42 | 8 | 50 |
RESPONDENT-M is suspended while having sex with PARTNER-F | 42 | 11 | 47 |
RESPONDENT-M wears a butt plug during sex | 42 | 9 | 49 |
watch other couples have sex (live) | 42 | 15 | 44 |
go to a sex or swingers club together | 40 | 10 | 49 |
suck semen out of PARTNER-F after sex | 40 | 7 | 53 |
let other person/people/couples watch us have sex | 38 | 13 | 49 |
PARTNER-F uses nipple clamps on RESPONDENT-M | 38 | 7 | 56 |
include another male in sex (menage-a-trois) | 37 | 10 | 54 |
have sex monogamously with other couples (don't touch other couples) | 36 | 13 | 51 |
PARTNER-F watches RESPONDENT-M have sex with another female | 36 | 12 | 52 |
give each other permission to get a happy ending massage | 34 | 11 | 55 |
PARTNER-F wears a hood | 34 | 6 | 60 |
PARTNER-F double penetrated by RESPONDENT-M and another man | 32 | 12 | 55 |
RESPONDENT-M wears a dog collar with a leash | 32 | 5 | 63 |
RESPONDENT-M wears a hood | 32 | 5 | 63 |
include another couple in sex (small orgy) | 31 | 13 | 56 |
RESPONDENT-M watches PARTNER-F get breasts rubbed by a stranger | 31 | 13 | 56 |
RESPONDENT-M wears a ball gag | 31 | 5 | 64 |
RESPONDENT-M watches PARTNER-F get felt up by a stranger | 30 | 12 | 57 |
RESPONDENT-M watches PARTNER-F have sex with another male | 28 | 11 | 61 |
swap partners with another couple | 28 | 11 | 61 |
participate in an large orgy (more than 4 people) | 27 | 12 | 61 |
show pictures / film of PARTNER-F over the internet | 27 | 8 | 65 |
show pictures / film of us having sex over the internet | 26 | 9 | 65 |
give each other a sexual Hall Pass | 25 | 9 | 66 |
show pictures / film of RESPONDENT-M over the internet | 24 | 7 | 69 |
PARTNER-F cross dresses in clothing of the opposite sex | 21 | 4 | 75 |
RESPONDENT-M cross dresses in clothing of the opposite sex | 21 | 4 | 75 |
PARTNER-F watches RESPONDENT-M have sex with another male | 14 | 4 | 82 |