Top Fantasies

Below are the rankings of fantasies from the selected gender combination of respondents and partners. The numberical values are a percent of total respondents.

  • FEMALE respondent MALE partner
  • MALE respondent FEMALE partner
  • FEMALE respondent FEMALE partner
  • MALE respondent MALE partner

  • MALE respondent + FEMALE partner

    QUESTION

    YES/WILLING

    AROUSED

    NO

    PARTNER-F initiates sex more often towards RESPONDENT-M

    94

    5

    1

    RESPONDENT-M initiates sex more often towards PARTNER-F

    94

    4

    2

    have morning sex

    93

    5

    2

    RESPONDENT-M explores PARTNER-F's body

    93

    5

    2

    PARTNER-F explores RESPONDENT-M's body

    92

    5

    3

    PARTNER-F gives RESPONDENT-M a hand job

    92

    5

    3

    PARTNER-F shows favorite spots and techniques to RESPONDENT-M

    91

    7

    3

    RESPONDENT-M takes lead more during sex with PARTNER-F

    91

    7

    3

    69 together

    90

    6

    4

    PARTNER-F grinds pussy on RESPONDENT-M's penis

    90

    8

    2

    PARTNER-F sits on RESPONDENT-M's face while receiving oral

    90

    6

    4

    PARTNER-F wakes up RESPONDENT-M with sex or oral sex

    90

    7

    3

    RESPONDENT-M wakes up PARTNER-F with sex or oral sex

    90

    7

    3

    RESPONDENT-M gives PARTNER-F a sensual massage

    89

    8

    3

    have longer teasing and foreplay sessions

    88

    10

    3

    PARTNER-F fondles RESPONDENT-M while watching tv/movie

    88

    10

    2

    PARTNER-F swallows RESPONDENT-M's cum

    88

    6

    5

    RESPONDENT-M fondles PARTNER-F while watching tv/movie

    88

    10

    2

    RESPONDENT-M spanks PARTNER-F with hand

    88

    5

    6

    RESPONDENT-M uses vibrators on PARTNER-F in sex

    88

    6

    6

    have sex 7 days in a row

    87

    9

    4

    PARTNER-F masturbates while letting RESPONDENT-M watch

    87

    9

    4

    RESPONDENT-M blindfolds PARTNER-F

    87

    8

    5

    RESPONDENT-M buys sex toy to use on PARTNER-F

    87

    7

    5

    RESPONDENT-M cums over PARTNER-F's breasts/neck (pearl necklace)

    87

    8

    5

    RESPONDENT-M edges PARTNER-F near orgasm

    87

    9

    4

    RESPONDENT-M talks dirtier to PARTNER-F

    87

    8

    5

    PARTNER-F talks dirtier to RESPONDENT-M

    86

    10

    4

    RESPONDENT-M restrains or ties down PARTNER-F

    86

    8

    6

    RESPONDENT-M shows favorite spots and techniques to PARTNER-F

    86

    9

    5

    RESPONDENT-M trims / shaves / waxes around penis and scrotum

    86

    3

    11

    have sex 3 times in one day

    85

    10

    4

    PARTNER-F buys sex toy to use on self

    85

    9

    6

    PARTNER-F takes lead more during sex with RESPONDENT-M

    85

    12

    3

    shop together for sex toy(s)

    85

    9

    7

    PARTNER-F gives RESPONDENT-M a sensual massage

    84

    10

    6

    PARTNER-F makes RESPONDENT-M cum multiple times in one sex session

    84

    12

    4

    PARTNER-F trims / shaves / waxes around labia

    84

    7

    9

    RESPONDENT-M is dominant toward PARTNER-F submissive

    84

    8

    8

    RESPONDENT-M thrusts penis between PARTNER-F's breasts

    84

    10

    6

    send each other sexy messages (text/email)

    84

    10

    6

    PARTNER-F attempts female ejaculation

    83

    9

    8

    PARTNER-F edges RESPONDENT-M near orgasm

    83

    10

    6

    RESPONDENT-M masturbates while letting PARTNER-F watch

    83

    8

    10

    RESPONDENT-M uses dildos on PARTNER-F in sex

    83

    7

    10

    sexually tease each other for an entire day

    83

    12

    5

    PARTNER-F wears risque lingerie

    81

    9

    10

    play sex games (board/card/online)

    81

    12

    8

    RESPONDENT-M cums over PARTNER-F's face (facial)

    81

    8

    11

    PARTNER-F sits on RESPONDENT-M's penis without making him cum

    80

    12

    8

    PARTNER-F blindfolds RESPONDENT-M

    79

    11

    10

    RESPONDENT-M anally fingers PARTNER-F

    79

    7

    14

    RESPONDENT-M anally penetrates PARTNER-F

    79

    7

    13

    RESPONDENT-M takes erotic pictures of PARTNER-F

    79

    11

    11

    have sex 30 days in a row

    78

    11

    11

    have sex in a car

    78

    11

    11

    PARTNER-F leaves sex invites for RESPONDENT-M

    78

    13

    8

    watch porn together

    78

    11

    11

    PARTNER-F goes out not wearing panties

    77

    14

    9

    PARTNER-F restrains or ties down RESPONDENT-M

    77

    10

    13

    RESPONDENT-M leaves sex invites for PARTNER-F

    77

    13

    10

    have sex in the woods or in a park

    75

    12

    13

    PARTNER-F goes out not wearing a bra

    75

    13

    12

    PARTNER-F is dominant toward RESPONDENT-M submissive

    75

    10

    15

    PARTNER-F is a sex slave for RESPONDENT-M for a day

    74

    13

    13

    RESPONDENT-M wears a cock ring during sex

    74

    9

    17

    PARTNER-F wears a butt plug during sex

    73

    11

    17

    RESPONDENT-M fondles PARTNER-F in a public setting (restaurant/theater)

    73

    16

    11

    RESPONDENT-M uses a remote control toy on PARTNER-F in a public setting

    73

    14

    13

    PARTNER-F buys sex toy to use on RESPONDENT-M

    72

    10

    18

    PARTNER-F fondles RESPONDENT-M in a public setting (restaurant/theater)

    72

    17

    11

    PARTNER-F goes out wearing crotchless panties

    72

    15

    13

    RESPONDENT-M bites PARTNER-F

    72

    7

    21

    use mirrors while having sex

    72

    15

    14

    RESPONDENT-M is a sex slave for PARTNER-F for a day

    71

    12

    16

    RESPONDENT-M spanks PARTNER-F with toys (whip/paddle)

    71

    8

    21

    film ourselves having sex

    70

    11

    19

    roleplay in costumes

    70

    12

    18

    take pictures of us having sex

    70

    11

    19

    practice kegel exercises while having sex

    69

    12

    19

    PARTNER-F takes erotic pictures of RESPONDENT-M

    68

    8

    24

    RESPONDENT-M licks PARTNER-F's anus

    68

    6

    26

    RESPONDENT-M uses nipple clamps on PARTNER-F

    68

    9

    23

    have phone sex

    67

    12

    21

    kiss after cuming in PARTNER-F's mouth

    66

    7

    27

    PARTNER-F bites RESPONDENT-M

    65

    9

    25

    PARTNER-F spanks RESPONDENT-M with hand

    65

    8

    27

    use sex furniture (such as a sex swing or ramp)

    65

    14

    20

    have sex in the guest room at a party

    64

    16

    20

    read erotic fiction together

    64

    14

    22

    PARTNER-F uses vibrators on RESPONDENT-M in sex

    63

    9

    28

    RESPONDENT-M buys sex toy to use on self

    62

    12

    26

    go to a strip club together

    60

    10

    31

    have sex in a store dressing room

    58

    16

    26

    have sex in front of an outward facing window

    58

    15

    27

    have sex while on PARTNER-F's period

    58

    3

    39

    PARTNER-F is suspended while having sex with RESPONDENT-M

    57

    13

    29

    PARTNER-F anally fingers RESPONDENT-M

    54

    9

    37

    have sex in a public restroom

    53

    11

    36

    have sex in work environment

    53

    12

    35

    include another female in sex (menage-a-trois)

    52

    15

    32

    PARTNER-F licks RESPONDENT-M's anus

    51

    8

    41

    PARTNER-F spanks RESPONDENT-M with toys (whip/paddle)

    51

    7

    42

    PARTNER-F wears a ball gag

    50

    10

    40

    go to a pleasure resort together

    49

    14

    37

    PARTNER-F fisted by RESPONDENT-M

    48

    8

    45

    PARTNER-F gives RESPONDENT-M a foot job

    48

    9

    43

    PARTNER-F wears a dog collar with a leash

    47

    8

    45

    RESPONDENT-M watches PARTNER-F have sex with another female

    47

    18

    35

    RESPONDENT-M anally pegs PARTNER-F with a strap-on

    46

    6

    48

    RESPONDENT-M penetrates PARTNER-F with a strap-on

    46

    6

    47

    RESPONDENT-M roleplay rapes PARTNER-F

    46

    7

    47

    RESPONDENT-M is suspended while having sex with PARTNER-F

    44

    11

    45

    go to a nudist resort together

    43

    10

    46

    PARTNER-F anally pegs RESPONDENT-M with a strap-on

    43

    8

    49

    RESPONDENT-M wears a butt plug during sex

    43

    9

    47

    watch other couples have sex (live)

    43

    15

    42

    go to a sex or swingers club together

    41

    10

    49

    suck semen out of PARTNER-F after sex

    40

    7

    53

    PARTNER-F uses nipple clamps on RESPONDENT-M

    39

    7

    54

    let other person/people/couples watch us have sex

    38

    13

    48

    have sex monogamously with other couples (don't touch other couples)

    36

    13

    51

    include another male in sex (menage-a-trois)

    36

    10

    54

    PARTNER-F watches RESPONDENT-M have sex with another female

    36

    12

    52

    PARTNER-F wears a hood

    35

    6

    59

    give each other permission to get a happy ending massage

    34

    12

    55

    RESPONDENT-M wears a dog collar with a leash

    33

    5

    62

    RESPONDENT-M wears a hood

    33

    5

    62

    PARTNER-F double penetrated by RESPONDENT-M and another man

    32

    13

    55

    RESPONDENT-M watches PARTNER-F get breasts rubbed by a stranger

    32

    13

    56

    RESPONDENT-M wears a ball gag

    32

    5

    63

    include another couple in sex (small orgy)

    31

    14

    56

    RESPONDENT-M watches PARTNER-F get felt up by a stranger

    31

    13

    57

    RESPONDENT-M watches PARTNER-F have sex with another male

    28

    12

    60

    swap partners with another couple

    28

    12

    60

    show pictures / film of PARTNER-F over the internet

    27

    7

    66

    participate in an large orgy (more than 4 people)

    26

    12

    61

    show pictures / film of us having sex over the internet

    26

    9

    65

    give each other a sexual Hall Pass

    25

    9

    67

    show pictures / film of RESPONDENT-M over the internet

    24

    7

    69

    RESPONDENT-M cross dresses in clothing of the opposite sex

    22

    4

    74

    PARTNER-F cross dresses in clothing of the opposite sex

    21

    3

    76

    PARTNER-F watches RESPONDENT-M have sex with another male

    14

    4

    82