Top Fantasies

Below are the rankings of fantasies from the selected gender combination of respondents and partners. The numberical values are a percent of total respondents.

  • FEMALE respondent MALE partner
  • MALE respondent FEMALE partner
  • FEMALE respondent FEMALE partner
  • MALE respondent MALE partner

  • MALE respondent + MALE partner

    QUESTION

    YES/WILLING

    AROUSED

    NO

    RESPONDENT-M gives PARTNER-M a hand job

    92

    2

    7

    69 together

    90

    2

    8

    RESPONDENT-M explores PARTNER-M's body

    89

    5

    5

    PARTNER-M gives RESPONDENT-M a hand job

    88

    3

    8

    PARTNER-M masturbates while letting RESPONDENT-M watch

    88

    9

    4

    have longer teasing and foreplay sessions

    87

    9

    4

    PARTNER-M shows favorite spots and techniques to RESPONDENT-M

    87

    4

    9

    RESPONDENT-M edges PARTNER-M near orgasm

    86

    11

    4

    PARTNER-M explores RESPONDENT-M's body

    85

    9

    5

    RESPONDENT-M fondles PARTNER-M while watching tv/movie

    84

    13

    4

    RESPONDENT-M gives PARTNER-M a sensual massage

    84

    5

    11

    RESPONDENT-M initiates sex more often towards PARTNER-M

    84

    9

    7

    RESPONDENT-M masturbates while letting PARTNER-M watch

    84

    11

    5

    have morning sex

    82

    9

    9

    PARTNER-M buys sex toy to use on self

    82

    9

    9

    PARTNER-M cums over RESPONDENT-M's breasts/neck (pearl necklace)

    82

    5

    12

    RESPONDENT-M makes PARTNER-M cum multiple times in one sex session

    82

    15

    4

    sexually tease each other for an entire day

    82

    11

    7

    PARTNER-M swallows RESPONDENT-M's cum

    81

    3

    15

    RESPONDENT-M swallows PARTNER-M's cum

    81

    5

    14

    have sex 7 days in a row

    80

    5

    15

    have sex in a car

    80

    9

    11

    PARTNER-M makes RESPONDENT-M cum multiple times in one sex session

    80

    9

    11

    PARTNER-M gives RESPONDENT-M a sensual massage

    79

    13

    8

    PARTNER-M initiates sex more often towards RESPONDENT-M

    79

    13

    9

    PARTNER-M takes lead more during sex with RESPONDENT-M

    79

    10

    11

    PARTNER-M wakes up RESPONDENT-M with sex or oral sex

    79

    9

    13

    RESPONDENT-M cums over PARTNER-M's breasts/neck (pearl necklace)

    79

    5

    16

    RESPONDENT-M buys sex toy to use on PARTNER-M

    78

    11

    11

    shop together for sex toy(s)

    78

    11

    11

    kiss after cuming in PARTNER-M's mouth

    77

    9

    13

    kiss after cuming in RESPONDENT-M's mouth

    77

    11

    11

    PARTNER-M anally penetrates RESPONDENT-M

    77

    5

    18

    RESPONDENT-M anally fingers PARTNER-M

    77

    2

    21

    RESPONDENT-M anally penetrates PARTNER-M

    77

    23

    RESPONDENT-M wakes up PARTNER-M with sex or oral sex

    77

    9

    14

    PARTNER-M buys sex toy to use on RESPONDENT-M

    76

    11

    13

    PARTNER-M fondles RESPONDENT-M while watching tv/movie

    76

    13

    11

    RESPONDENT-M is a sex slave for PARTNER-M for a day

    76

    2

    22

    RESPONDENT-M shows favorite spots and techniques to PARTNER-M

    76

    5

    18

    RESPONDENT-M uses vibrators on PARTNER-M in sex

    76

    7

    16

    PARTNER-M anally fingers RESPONDENT-M

    75

    7

    18

    RESPONDENT-M buys sex toy to use on self

    75

    16

    9

    send each other sexy messages (text/email)

    75

    9

    16

    use mirrors while having sex

    75

    8

    16

    PARTNER-M is dominant toward RESPONDENT-M submissive

    74

    11

    15

    PARTNER-M spanks RESPONDENT-M with hand

    74

    8

    19

    RESPONDENT-M cums over PARTNER-M's face (facial)

    74

    3

    22

    PARTNER-M edges RESPONDENT-M near orgasm

    73

    16

    11

    PARTNER-M restrains or ties down RESPONDENT-M

    73

    9

    18

    RESPONDENT-M fondles PARTNER-M in a public setting (restaurant/theater)

    73

    11

    16

    RESPONDENT-M trims / shaves / waxes around penis and scrotum

    73

    2

    25

    PARTNER-M trims / shaves / waxes around penis and scrotum

    72

    3

    25

    RESPONDENT-M takes erotic pictures of PARTNER-M

    72

    7

    22

    PARTNER-M wears a cock ring during sex

    71

    5

    24

    RESPONDENT-M takes lead more during sex with PARTNER-M

    71

    13

    16

    have sex 3 times in one day

    70

    17

    13

    watch porn together

    70

    15

    15

    PARTNER-M blindfolds RESPONDENT-M

    69

    11

    20

    PARTNER-M talks dirtier to RESPONDENT-M

    69

    16

    16

    PARTNER-M uses vibrators on RESPONDENT-M in sex

    69

    11

    20

    RESPONDENT-M talks dirtier to PARTNER-M

    69

    9

    22

    PARTNER-M cums over RESPONDENT-M's face (facial)

    68

    11

    21

    PARTNER-M licks RESPONDENT-M's anus

    68

    6

    26

    PARTNER-M wears a butt plug during sex

    68

    8

    25

    have sex in the woods or in a park

    67

    13

    20

    RESPONDENT-M restrains or ties down PARTNER-M

    67

    9

    24

    RESPONDENT-M wears a butt plug during sex

    66

    6

    28

    have sex 30 days in a row

    65

    15

    20

    PARTNER-M fondles RESPONDENT-M in a public setting (restaurant/theater)

    65

    18

    16

    PARTNER-M leaves sex invites for RESPONDENT-M

    65

    11

    24

    play sex games (board/card/online)

    65

    15

    20

    RESPONDENT-M blindfolds PARTNER-M

    65

    13

    22

    PARTNER-M bites RESPONDENT-M

    64

    2

    34

    PARTNER-M spanks RESPONDENT-M with toys (whip/paddle)

    64

    2

    34

    RESPONDENT-M licks PARTNER-M's anus

    64

    2

    34

    RESPONDENT-M leaves sex invites for PARTNER-M

    62

    11

    27

    RESPONDENT-M spanks PARTNER-M with hand

    62

    12

    27

    RESPONDENT-M bites PARTNER-M

    60

    8

    32

    use sex furniture (such as a sex swing or ramp)

    60

    4

    36

    have phone sex

    59

    14

    28

    PARTNER-M takes erotic pictures of RESPONDENT-M

    58

    10

    32

    RESPONDENT-M is dominant toward PARTNER-M submissive

    58

    17

    25

    read erotic fiction together

    57

    7

    37

    RESPONDENT-M wears a cock ring during sex

    57

    6

    37

    roleplay in costumes

    57

    17

    26

    PARTNER-M is a sex slave for RESPONDENT-M for a day

    55

    9

    36

    suck semen out of RESPONDENT-M after sex

    55

    11

    34

    film ourselves having sex

    54

    12

    34

    take pictures of us having sex

    54

    12

    34

    RESPONDENT-M uses nipple clamps on PARTNER-M

    53

    13

    34

    RESPONDENT-M wears a ball gag

    52

    8

    40

    suck semen out of PARTNER-M after sex

    52

    9

    39

    have sex in the guest room at a party

    51

    9

    40

    RESPONDENT-M spanks PARTNER-M with toys (whip/paddle)

    51

    9

    40

    go to a pleasure resort together

    49

    4

    47

    go to a strip club together

    49

    7

    44

    RESPONDENT-M wears a dog collar with a leash

    49

    2

    49

    have sex in a public restroom

    47

    11

    42

    include another male in sex (menage-a-trois)

    45

    9

    46

    PARTNER-M wears a ball gag

    45

    6

    49

    RESPONDENT-M is suspended while having sex with PARTNER-M

    45

    11

    43

    have sex in a store dressing room

    44

    15

    42

    PARTNER-M uses nipple clamps on RESPONDENT-M

    43

    15

    42

    PARTNER-M anally pegs RESPONDENT-M with a strap-on

    41

    9

    50

    go to a nudist resort together

    40

    4

    56

    have sex in front of an outward facing window

    40

    9

    51

    PARTNER-M wears a dog collar with a leash

    40

    2

    58

    RESPONDENT-M anally pegs PARTNER-M with a strap-on

    40

    8

    53

    PARTNER-M is suspended while having sex with RESPONDENT-M

    37

    10

    54

    PARTNER-M watches RESPONDENT-M have sex with another male

    37

    16

    47

    have sex in work environment

    35

    13

    53

    PARTNER-M wears a hood

    35

    4

    62

    RESPONDENT-M wears a hood

    34

    4

    62

    give each other a sexual Hall Pass

    33

    7

    60

    go to a sex or swingers club together

    33

    5

    62

    include another couple in sex (small orgy)

    29

    7

    64

    RESPONDENT-M gives PARTNER-M a foot job

    29

    9

    63

    PARTNER-M gives RESPONDENT-M a foot job

    28

    7

    65

    RESPONDENT-M watches PARTNER-M have sex with another male

    28

    11

    61

    let other person/people/couples watch us have sex

    27

    9

    64

    RESPONDENT-M cross dresses in clothing of the opposite sex

    27

    7

    66

    participate in an large orgy (more than 4 people)

    25

    9

    66

    watch other couples have sex (live)

    24

    16

    60

    include another female in sex (menage-a-trois)

    23

    4

    73

    show pictures / film of RESPONDENT-M over the internet

    22

    4

    74

    show pictures / film of us having sex over the internet

    22

    5

    73

    PARTNER-M cross dresses in clothing of the opposite sex

    20

    11

    70

    RESPONDENT-M watches PARTNER-M have sex with another female

    18

    9

    73

    show pictures / film of PARTNER-M over the internet

    18

    5

    76

    swap partners with another couple

    18

    9

    73

    have sex monogamously with other couples (don't touch other couples)

    16

    13

    71

    PARTNER-M watches RESPONDENT-M have sex with another female

    15

    7

    78