Top Fantasies

Below are the rankings of fantasies from the selected gender combination of respondents and partners. The numberical values are a percent of total respondents.

  • FEMALE respondent MALE partner
  • MALE respondent FEMALE partner
  • FEMALE respondent FEMALE partner
  • MALE respondent MALE partner

  • MALE respondent + MALE partner

    QUESTION

    YES/WILLING

    AROUSED

    NO

    PARTNER-M initiates sex more often towards RESPONDENT-M

    88

    7

    5

    have morning sex

    87

    8

    5

    RESPONDENT-M gives PARTNER-M a hand job

    87

    5

    8

    PARTNER-M gives RESPONDENT-M a hand job

    86

    5

    9

    RESPONDENT-M explores PARTNER-M's body

    86

    10

    4

    69 together

    85

    4

    11

    have longer teasing and foreplay sessions

    85

    12

    3

    RESPONDENT-M initiates sex more often towards PARTNER-M

    85

    8

    7

    PARTNER-M shows favorite spots and techniques to RESPONDENT-M

    84

    7

    9

    PARTNER-M explores RESPONDENT-M's body

    83

    11

    6

    PARTNER-M swallows RESPONDENT-M's cum

    83

    5

    12

    RESPONDENT-M fondles PARTNER-M while watching tv/movie

    83

    12

    5

    RESPONDENT-M makes PARTNER-M cum multiple times in one sex session

    82

    12

    6

    RESPONDENT-M edges PARTNER-M near orgasm

    81

    10

    10

    PARTNER-M masturbates while letting RESPONDENT-M watch

    80

    12

    9

    RESPONDENT-M masturbates while letting PARTNER-M watch

    80

    10

    10

    RESPONDENT-M buys sex toy to use on PARTNER-M

    79

    7

    15

    have sex 7 days in a row

    78

    10

    12

    PARTNER-M fondles RESPONDENT-M while watching tv/movie

    78

    14

    8

    PARTNER-M wakes up RESPONDENT-M with sex or oral sex

    78

    11

    11

    RESPONDENT-M gives PARTNER-M a sensual massage

    78

    12

    10

    RESPONDENT-M swallows PARTNER-M's cum

    78

    6

    16

    RESPONDENT-M wakes up PARTNER-M with sex or oral sex

    78

    10

    12

    PARTNER-M gives RESPONDENT-M a sensual massage

    77

    12

    11

    PARTNER-M takes lead more during sex with RESPONDENT-M

    77

    16

    7

    shop together for sex toy(s)

    77

    10

    13

    RESPONDENT-M cums over PARTNER-M's face (facial)

    76

    6

    19

    RESPONDENT-M shows favorite spots and techniques to PARTNER-M

    76

    10

    14

    PARTNER-M edges RESPONDENT-M near orgasm

    75

    13

    13

    PARTNER-M is dominant toward RESPONDENT-M submissive

    75

    9

    16

    RESPONDENT-M cums over PARTNER-M's breasts/neck (pearl necklace)

    75

    7

    18

    have sex in a car

    74

    15

    12

    PARTNER-M buys sex toy to use on RESPONDENT-M

    74

    9

    16

    PARTNER-M buys sex toy to use on self

    74

    9

    16

    PARTNER-M cums over RESPONDENT-M's breasts/neck (pearl necklace)

    74

    9

    18

    RESPONDENT-M anally fingers PARTNER-M

    74

    6

    21

    RESPONDENT-M anally penetrates PARTNER-M

    74

    8

    18

    RESPONDENT-M uses vibrators on PARTNER-M in sex

    74

    8

    18

    have sex 3 times in one day

    73

    19

    8

    PARTNER-M anally penetrates RESPONDENT-M

    73

    7

    20

    PARTNER-M makes RESPONDENT-M cum multiple times in one sex session

    73

    15

    12

    send each other sexy messages (text/email)

    73

    14

    13

    sexually tease each other for an entire day

    73

    16

    11

    kiss after cuming in RESPONDENT-M's mouth

    72

    11

    17

    PARTNER-M restrains or ties down RESPONDENT-M

    72

    10

    18

    RESPONDENT-M restrains or ties down PARTNER-M

    72

    10

    18

    RESPONDENT-M talks dirtier to PARTNER-M

    72

    13

    14

    PARTNER-M talks dirtier to RESPONDENT-M

    71

    16

    13

    RESPONDENT-M takes lead more during sex with PARTNER-M

    71

    13

    16

    RESPONDENT-M trims / shaves / waxes around penis and scrotum

    71

    2

    27

    PARTNER-M blindfolds RESPONDENT-M

    70

    10

    20

    PARTNER-M cums over RESPONDENT-M's face (facial)

    70

    11

    19

    RESPONDENT-M blindfolds PARTNER-M

    70

    9

    20

    kiss after cuming in PARTNER-M's mouth

    69

    13

    18

    PARTNER-M trims / shaves / waxes around penis and scrotum

    69

    7

    24

    play sex games (board/card/online)

    69

    13

    18

    RESPONDENT-M buys sex toy to use on self

    69

    13

    18

    watch porn together

    69

    9

    21

    have sex 30 days in a row

    68

    15

    18

    PARTNER-M anally fingers RESPONDENT-M

    67

    9

    23

    PARTNER-M leaves sex invites for RESPONDENT-M

    67

    9

    24

    PARTNER-M wears a cock ring during sex

    66

    11

    22

    RESPONDENT-M takes erotic pictures of PARTNER-M

    66

    12

    22

    have sex in the woods or in a park

    65

    15

    20

    PARTNER-M uses vibrators on RESPONDENT-M in sex

    65

    11

    24

    PARTNER-M spanks RESPONDENT-M with hand

    64

    10

    26

    PARTNER-M fondles RESPONDENT-M in a public setting (restaurant/theater)

    63

    18

    18

    RESPONDENT-M spanks PARTNER-M with hand

    63

    8

    29

    RESPONDENT-M fondles PARTNER-M in a public setting (restaurant/theater)

    62

    18

    20

    RESPONDENT-M leaves sex invites for PARTNER-M

    62

    11

    27

    PARTNER-M licks RESPONDENT-M's anus

    61

    7

    32

    RESPONDENT-M is a sex slave for PARTNER-M for a day

    61

    13

    27

    RESPONDENT-M is dominant toward PARTNER-M submissive

    61

    14

    25

    RESPONDENT-M licks PARTNER-M's anus

    61

    7

    32

    PARTNER-M bites RESPONDENT-M

    59

    8

    33

    RESPONDENT-M wears a cock ring during sex

    58

    10

    32

    roleplay in costumes

    58

    14

    29

    RESPONDENT-M bites PARTNER-M

    57

    11

    32

    PARTNER-M takes erotic pictures of RESPONDENT-M

    55

    13

    32

    PARTNER-M wears a butt plug during sex

    55

    12

    33

    use mirrors while having sex

    55

    14

    31

    PARTNER-M is a sex slave for RESPONDENT-M for a day

    54

    14

    32

    take pictures of us having sex

    54

    14

    32

    use sex furniture (such as a sex swing or ramp)

    54

    11

    35

    film ourselves having sex

    53

    11

    36

    RESPONDENT-M wears a butt plug during sex

    53

    14

    33

    have phone sex

    52

    12

    35

    have sex in the guest room at a party

    52

    15

    33

    PARTNER-M spanks RESPONDENT-M with toys (whip/paddle)

    52

    7

    41

    RESPONDENT-M spanks PARTNER-M with toys (whip/paddle)

    51

    6

    42

    read erotic fiction together

    50

    12

    38

    suck semen out of RESPONDENT-M after sex

    49

    12

    39

    include another male in sex (menage-a-trois)

    48

    13

    39

    suck semen out of PARTNER-M after sex

    48

    10

    43

    go to a strip club together

    46

    9

    45

    have sex in a public restroom

    46

    13

    41

    go to a pleasure resort together

    45

    12

    43

    have sex in front of an outward facing window

    45

    13

    42

    have sex in a store dressing room

    44

    17

    39

    RESPONDENT-M uses nipple clamps on PARTNER-M

    43

    11

    46

    RESPONDENT-M is suspended while having sex with PARTNER-M

    42

    12

    46

    RESPONDENT-M wears a ball gag

    42

    9

    49

    go to a nudist resort together

    41

    10

    49

    PARTNER-M wears a ball gag

    40

    7

    53

    RESPONDENT-M wears a dog collar with a leash

    40

    9

    51

    PARTNER-M uses nipple clamps on RESPONDENT-M

    39

    11

    50

    PARTNER-M wears a dog collar with a leash

    37

    7

    55

    have sex in work environment

    35

    13

    52

    PARTNER-M is suspended while having sex with RESPONDENT-M

    35

    9

    56

    RESPONDENT-M gives PARTNER-M a foot job

    35

    6

    59

    go to a sex or swingers club together

    34

    8

    57

    PARTNER-M anally pegs RESPONDENT-M with a strap-on

    34

    7

    59

    give each other permission to get a happy ending massage

    33

    5

    62

    PARTNER-M watches RESPONDENT-M have sex with another male

    33

    12

    56

    give each other a sexual Hall Pass

    32

    5

    63

    let other person/people/couples watch us have sex

    30

    13

    56

    PARTNER-M gives RESPONDENT-M a foot job

    30

    6

    64

    PARTNER-M wears a hood

    30

    4

    66

    RESPONDENT-M anally pegs PARTNER-M with a strap-on

    30

    8

    62

    RESPONDENT-M watches PARTNER-M have sex with another male

    30

    12

    58

    RESPONDENT-M wears a hood

    30

    4

    66

    include another couple in sex (small orgy)

    29

    13

    58

    participate in an large orgy (more than 4 people)

    28

    13

    59

    RESPONDENT-M cross dresses in clothing of the opposite sex

    28

    6

    66

    watch other couples have sex (live)

    28

    11

    62

    PARTNER-M cross dresses in clothing of the opposite sex

    27

    8

    65

    show pictures / film of RESPONDENT-M over the internet

    24

    6

    69

    show pictures / film of us having sex over the internet

    24

    7

    69

    include another female in sex (menage-a-trois)

    23

    5

    72

    have sex monogamously with other couples (don't touch other couples)

    22

    11

    67

    show pictures / film of PARTNER-M over the internet

    22

    5

    73

    swap partners with another couple

    20

    8

    72

    RESPONDENT-M watches PARTNER-M have sex with another female

    18

    6

    76

    PARTNER-M watches RESPONDENT-M have sex with another female

    15

    5

    80