QUESTION

YES/WILLING

AROUSED

NO

RESPONDENT-M gives PARTNER-M a hand job

88

6

6

have morning sex

87

8

5

PARTNER-M gives RESPONDENT-M a hand job

87

6

8

PARTNER-M initiates sex more often towards RESPONDENT-M

87

8

5

RESPONDENT-M explores PARTNER-M's body

87

9

4

have longer teasing and foreplay sessions

85

11

3

RESPONDENT-M initiates sex more often towards PARTNER-M

85

8

7

PARTNER-M explores RESPONDENT-M's body

84

10

6

PARTNER-M shows favorite spots and techniques to RESPONDENT-M

84

9

7

69 together

82

6

11

RESPONDENT-M fondles PARTNER-M while watching tv/movie

82

12

6

RESPONDENT-M makes PARTNER-M cum multiple times in one sex session

82

12

6

PARTNER-M swallows RESPONDENT-M's cum

81

7

12

RESPONDENT-M edges PARTNER-M near orgasm

81

10

9

PARTNER-M takes lead more during sex with RESPONDENT-M

80

13

8

PARTNER-M fondles RESPONDENT-M while watching tv/movie

79

14

7

PARTNER-M masturbates while letting RESPONDENT-M watch

79

13

9

have sex 7 days in a row

78

12

10

RESPONDENT-M masturbates while letting PARTNER-M watch

78

10

12

RESPONDENT-M shows favorite spots and techniques to PARTNER-M

78

12

9

RESPONDENT-M swallows PARTNER-M's cum

78

7

15

RESPONDENT-M wakes up PARTNER-M with sex or oral sex

78

10

12

shop together for sex toy(s)

78

10

12

PARTNER-M talks dirtier to RESPONDENT-M

77

13

10

RESPONDENT-M gives PARTNER-M a sensual massage

77

13

10

RESPONDENT-M talks dirtier to PARTNER-M

77

11

12

have sex 3 times in one day

76

16

8

PARTNER-M buys sex toy to use on RESPONDENT-M

76

10

14

PARTNER-M edges RESPONDENT-M near orgasm

76

12

12

PARTNER-M makes RESPONDENT-M cum multiple times in one sex session

76

13

11

RESPONDENT-M buys sex toy to use on PARTNER-M

76

9

15

PARTNER-M buys sex toy to use on self

75

10

14

PARTNER-M gives RESPONDENT-M a sensual massage

75

14

10

PARTNER-M is dominant toward RESPONDENT-M submissive

75

10

15

PARTNER-M wakes up RESPONDENT-M with sex or oral sex

75

12

13

send each other sexy messages (text/email)

75

13

12

sexually tease each other for an entire day

75

15

10

RESPONDENT-M cums over PARTNER-M's face (facial)

74

8

18

have sex in a car

73

14

13

PARTNER-M cums over RESPONDENT-M's breasts/neck (pearl necklace)

73

9

18

RESPONDENT-M cums over PARTNER-M's breasts/neck (pearl necklace)

73

8

19

RESPONDENT-M trims / shaves / waxes around penis and scrotum

73

3

24

kiss after cuming in RESPONDENT-M's mouth

72

10

18

RESPONDENT-M anally fingers PARTNER-M

72

5

23

RESPONDENT-M anally penetrates PARTNER-M

72

7

21

RESPONDENT-M blindfolds PARTNER-M

72

9

19

RESPONDENT-M takes lead more during sex with PARTNER-M

72

11

17

RESPONDENT-M uses vibrators on PARTNER-M in sex

72

10

18

PARTNER-M cums over RESPONDENT-M's face (facial)

71

10

20

play sex games (board/card/online)

71

12

17

RESPONDENT-M buys sex toy to use on self

71

10

19

RESPONDENT-M restrains or ties down PARTNER-M

71

10

20

PARTNER-M anally penetrates RESPONDENT-M

70

7

23

PARTNER-M blindfolds RESPONDENT-M

70

11

20

PARTNER-M restrains or ties down RESPONDENT-M

70

11

19

PARTNER-M trims / shaves / waxes around penis and scrotum

70

7

24

watch porn together

70

11

19

have sex 30 days in a row

69

13

19

kiss after cuming in PARTNER-M's mouth

69

12

19

PARTNER-M leaves sex invites for RESPONDENT-M

69

11

19

PARTNER-M uses vibrators on RESPONDENT-M in sex

69

10

21

PARTNER-M anally fingers RESPONDENT-M

67

9

23

RESPONDENT-M takes erotic pictures of PARTNER-M

67

12

21

RESPONDENT-M leaves sex invites for PARTNER-M

66

13

21

have sex in the woods or in a park

65

13

22

RESPONDENT-M is dominant toward PARTNER-M submissive

65

11

24

PARTNER-M wears a cock ring during sex

64

12

24

PARTNER-M spanks RESPONDENT-M with hand

63

11

26

RESPONDENT-M spanks PARTNER-M with hand

63

8

29

roleplay in costumes

63

12

26

RESPONDENT-M is a sex slave for PARTNER-M for a day

62

12

26

PARTNER-M fondles RESPONDENT-M in a public setting (restaurant/theater)

60

18

22

PARTNER-M licks RESPONDENT-M's anus

60

8

33

PARTNER-M takes erotic pictures of RESPONDENT-M

60

11

29

RESPONDENT-M fondles PARTNER-M in a public setting (restaurant/theater)

60

18

22

PARTNER-M bites RESPONDENT-M

59

10

31

RESPONDENT-M bites PARTNER-M

59

10

31

RESPONDENT-M licks PARTNER-M's anus

58

8

34

take pictures of us having sex

58

12

30

use mirrors while having sex

58

14

28

PARTNER-M wears a butt plug during sex

57

11

33

RESPONDENT-M wears a cock ring during sex

57

10

32

film ourselves having sex

55

12

33

use sex furniture (such as a sex swing or ramp)

55

15

30

PARTNER-M is a sex slave for RESPONDENT-M for a day

54

14

32

read erotic fiction together

54

13

34

RESPONDENT-M wears a butt plug during sex

54

13

33

go to a strip club together

53

8

39

have phone sex

53

13

34

have sex in the guest room at a party

53

17

30

PARTNER-M spanks RESPONDENT-M with toys (whip/paddle)

51

8

41

RESPONDENT-M spanks PARTNER-M with toys (whip/paddle)

51

8

41

have sex in a public restroom

50

13

37

include another male in sex (menage-a-trois)

50

13

37

suck semen out of RESPONDENT-M after sex

50

10

40

go to a pleasure resort together

48

12

40

RESPONDENT-M uses nipple clamps on PARTNER-M

48

8

44

have sex in front of an outward facing window

47

14

38

suck semen out of PARTNER-M after sex

47

10

43

have sex in a store dressing room

46

17

38

RESPONDENT-M is suspended while having sex with PARTNER-M

42

12

46

go to a nudist resort together

41

9

50

PARTNER-M wears a ball gag

41

8

51

RESPONDENT-M wears a ball gag

41

9

50

PARTNER-M anally pegs RESPONDENT-M with a strap-on

40

6

54

PARTNER-M is suspended while having sex with RESPONDENT-M

40

9

51

RESPONDENT-M wears a dog collar with a leash

40

10

50

go to a sex or swingers club together

39

11

50

have sex in work environment

39

14

48

PARTNER-M uses nipple clamps on RESPONDENT-M

39

10

51

PARTNER-M wears a dog collar with a leash

39

9

52

give each other permission to get a happy ending massage

38

7

55

RESPONDENT-M anally pegs PARTNER-M with a strap-on

37

7

56

RESPONDENT-M gives PARTNER-M a foot job

37

6

57

let other person/people/couples watch us have sex

35

11

53

participate in an large orgy (more than 4 people)

35

14

51

watch other couples have sex (live)

35

10

55

give each other a sexual Hall Pass

34

7

59

include another couple in sex (small orgy)

34

13

53

PARTNER-M watches RESPONDENT-M have sex with another male

34

11

55

PARTNER-M cross dresses in clothing of the opposite sex

32

7

61

PARTNER-M wears a hood

32

6

63

RESPONDENT-M cross dresses in clothing of the opposite sex

32

8

60

RESPONDENT-M watches PARTNER-M have sex with another male

32

11

57

RESPONDENT-M wears a hood

32

5

63

PARTNER-M gives RESPONDENT-M a foot job

30

6

65

show pictures / film of us having sex over the internet

30

7

63

include another female in sex (menage-a-trois)

28

6

66

have sex monogamously with other couples (don't touch other couples)

27

10

63

show pictures / film of PARTNER-M over the internet

27

6

67

show pictures / film of RESPONDENT-M over the internet

27

7

66

swap partners with another couple

25

9

66

RESPONDENT-M watches PARTNER-M have sex with another female

20

6

74

PARTNER-M watches RESPONDENT-M have sex with another female

17

7

76